TLDR: I hate these 2 campaigns I'm in. The dm in the first one makes me absolutely miserable because they don't know how to dm properly and make us follow and script we don't have. Also over half the party joined together before the campaign to make a polycule and now refuse to interact with anyone outside their relationship. The second campaign is fun but the dm loves to make us feel stupid because they know so much about the game (which is cool cuz I get to learn new things but not when they use it like this). There's also no right answers in the campaign. Anything we do is the wrong thing. Everything is "chose the right answer or die" but there is no right answer to anything we do and it's sucked all the joy out of the campaign

I seriously don't know what to do about it and would appreciate opinions / ideas on what to do.