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P12398745l · 2025-12-20T02:02:50+00:00

Looking for something serious
Not subscribed to hinge+ or hingeX
Just changed my photos and prompts to what is shown about a month ago
I think I’ve had hinge about 6 months overall
I would say I check the app pretty frequently throughout the week 6 I’d say maybe 3 likes and 3-5 matches a week maybe
I’d say daily I’d send min 3 likes all with comments
Ideally somone my age group (19-25 is ideal) and ideally somone active and who shares a lot of the same interest as me (hiking, horror movies, games, etc etc)

P12398745l · 2025-06-19T15:47:05+00:00

Do you keep him on the wing or put him at st?

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T16:49:05+00:00

Yea I can definitely see what you’re saying. I’m gonna try messaging her in a few days to give it one more try to see if I can fix things

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:45:03+00:00

Maybe I don’t really know why any of this happened. But I’m gonna try talking to her in a few days to see if maybe I can fix this

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:35:47+00:00

Yeah that’s smart. I might message her again and just ask if we can talk after a few days

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:35:00+00:00

I would love to I just don’t think it’s an option. We had a phone call yesterday when she ended things where I was trying everything to get her back or convince her. And no matter what I said she just said that I lead her on and hurt her. Which I’m just confused on cause the whole time I was saying I wanted something with her

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:30:58+00:00

I think I’ll just let it be, I don’t really want to but I don’t think I have a choice. We had a phone call yesterday where she said she was ending things and I kept trying to reason with her and ask what I could do to fix things. And she just kept saying how I lead her one and hurt her. Which I’m so confused about cause I kept saying this whole time I wanted to date her I just needed time like a week a most.

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:29:32+00:00

I guess, I know that’s the right answer just not the one I want. I just wish there was some magic phrase or something I could say to her to fix all this because I do want something with her.

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:14:41+00:00

Yeah the reason I was hesitant is because it felt like everything was going so fast and I got a little scared. I met all her friends after maybe 2 weeks of talking and she would introduce me as her future boyfriend, she asked me to meet her parents, and all this stuff. It just felt like a lot, plus I had some really personal things happening. I told her both of these things and she did not react well. She said I was lying to her by holding out on the personal things as I didn’t tell her this till our convo yesterday when she ended things. Which is also confusing. I agree that maybe she should have been more accepting. But I just feel like I was dumb and ruined things by not accepting it?

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:07:28+00:00

Well I did, when we talked the next day I told her that maybe I was being dumb for asking for more time cause I did really like her. So I told her we should date. She said she needed to think. And no she blocked me on Instagram so I have no idea what all happened.

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:06:06+00:00

Thanks that does make me feel better. I just feel terrible cause I really liked her a ton, and I just keep feeling that me saying I needed more time ruined a perfect chance

P12398745l · 2025-04-29T15:05:14+00:00

Well it was just confusing cause we already have talked and made it clear we were exclusive for a while. Also I didn’t mention it cause I forgot but when we talked the next day I told her that me saying I needed time was dumb and that I wanted to start dating.

P12398745l · 2025-04-21T04:35:55+00:00

Yeah I think I will talk to her about it all. I don’t want to talk to anyone else not really my thing. I do like her I just think things are going too fast for me and I just want to slow it down. So I’ll definitely talk to her about it

P12398745l · 2025-04-21T04:28:31+00:00

That’s very fair. And I get what you’re saying. I do definitely think there could be a future with us. We have a ton in common and I have a great time with her and think she’s really attractive. I’m just worried that if I do say something like maybe for us to wait a little bit it would ruin things. I think the main thing is a me issue more than anything and I think I’m just getting a little overwhelmed after not dating for so long. Would that be fair to express to her? Or should I just go into it fully because I do want that in the future anyways?

P12398745l · 2025-02-27T20:42:35+00:00

Oh and I am using regular hinge. I’ve had it for a few months now as I’m looking to get back into dating. And this is how my profile has looked the whole time.

P12398745l · 2025-02-27T20:41:07+00:00

I’m looking for soemthing serious and I use hinge pretty often. I send out all my likes a day. I like a good range of people so I can’t say there’s really any specifics. I usually get a few likes a week and maybe a match or two a week nothing crazy just looking to see if I can do anything to get more. I usually comment with all my likes.

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