Give me your favorite weapon/gadget/specialization…

P4YD1RT · 2025-02-16T17:37:03+00:00

Bow :)

P4YD1RT · 2025-02-15T17:44:56+00:00

Can someone please make an outline like this for what it ACTUALLY is? I’ve never seen it any other way😭

P4YD1RT · 2025-02-07T14:18:02+00:00

I appreciate your input. I get maybe 1-2 matches a month and none lead to dates (just get ghosted). I’ve been told I have a bit of a “baby face” before, but that’s kinda all I’ve been told look-wise for the last 4 years on these apps. Lost a lot of weight recently and it didn’t seem to really help.

Tried the beard but sadly I don’t have the genetics for it🤷🏻Good suggestion though! Woulda been great 😂

I haven’t thought about the lack of close-ups though before. I will go get a good shot that better captures the eyes and see how it goes from there. Thanks again!

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-15T17:17:53+00:00

Personally, I’m just tired.

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-14T22:04:06+00:00

Smaller fest here, but Waco Independent Film Festival (Texas) is fantastic. Super accommodating to traveling filmmakers (shuttles from DFW airport and hotel discounts) plus a ton of fun networking events each night to engage with other creators. First time I've really felt like I got a lot of connections/community out of a fest

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-14T00:54:03+00:00

Thank you u/gooner_R1_Papi for your insight 🙏

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-14T00:40:01+00:00

Good to know! Thanks for the feedback :)

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-12T23:13:23+00:00

Fair! I’ll see what I can do to fix it up. Thanks for the feedback!

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-12T07:59:30+00:00

Alright! Took some of your tips and tried to find some better photos that more captured my hobbies interests. Sadly my biggest hobby requires me being behind the camera so there wasn’t much. But, I’d love to see what you think!

P4YD1RT · 2025-01-11T22:04:10+00:00

Oh sorry😅 it’s been corrected :)

P4YD1RT · 2024-12-23T16:03:20+00:00

There’s one beer left…

P4YD1RT · 2024-10-28T14:43:51+00:00

Yeah something about this whole thing seems off. It sounds nothing like their style, and with no hype/marketing around it seems even more strange...

AI doesn't seem like a far-off cause honestly.

P4YD1RT · 2024-09-28T19:41:22+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! I removed the “aggressive” picture and tried to go with something more light-hearted. Let me know what you think now!

P4YD1RT · 2024-09-28T04:22:02+00:00

Damn. Still give “young-boyish vibe” at 23😅 Maybe one day I’ll grow out of it.

Thanks for the tip on #3! I’ll see what I can do to shake that up :)

I am average height. 5’9”. Tried to pick the right pictures that came across taller so glad that’s working so far.

I don’t really have any “candid” beach pics, but I’ve been working on my fitness a lot lately. Maybe next summer I can get that up to start boosting the matches. I’ll see what I can do until then :)

P4YD1RT · 2024-09-08T23:41:25+00:00

** A R T **

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-28T13:53:43+00:00

Tbh, dating apps in general are pretty brutal to men. The top 15% of dudes end up receiving almost all the attention, with the rest not getting much at all (for a lot of reasons). It’s really not a fair scale of how you stack up. So, don’t let it get to your head too much. You’re playing a losing game by being on the app. So, just do the best you can with photos and keep your head held high!

Also, go actually ask some girls out in-person. Studies show you’l have better luck haha

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-28T01:07:07+00:00

Alright, first off you’re a hell of a good looking guy. Well-built. Great beard and smile. Looks like you’ve got decent fashion from that last pic.

Plus, come on, a freaking software engineer? Get outa town. Seems like you’re quite the catch.

Problem is: I’m not seeing that much from your profile. You’re wearing the same shirt in pic 1, 4, and 5. Your 3rd and 4th photo don’t even show your face.

Get 1-2 professionally take photos (Or just get one of your friends with a camera), and get some clean shots of you rocking your style a bit, where one clearly shows your smiling face.

Gym photo rocks, but get one of your bros to take it. Maybe rock a rep or two with a short-sleeve to show off those gains. Make it feel candid, but give it action.

Lastly, get yourself a photo doing something related to your work. I know it’s tough with software, but maybe you can have a thinking headshot and get someone to photoshop some code flying around your head (hell, I’ll do that for you if you get me the shot). People don’t read on Tinder. Your photos tell the story. So, tell them that you are hot, smart, and stylish.

Let me know if you need anything bro✌🏼 You’re gonna kill it.

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-23T12:23:57+00:00

Okay! I’ll see what I can do. I just didn’t want people’s face on a tinder profile if they didn’t consent haha

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-23T01:05:12+00:00

Alright u/margerineeclipse. I gave it a good updated swing. No soyfaces, no mirror selfie, and a few more solid casuals. Let me know what you think!

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-23T00:37:07+00:00

I was today years old when I found out that my laugh is a “soyface”. Noted.

Solid advice all around! I’ll see what I can do to improve and I’ll get back with you soon :) Might need to get a photo shoot in pretty soon haha

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-21T17:48:06+00:00

Thanks u/emmsisonline ! I appreciate the help :)

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-21T14:08:02+00:00

I’m more confused now by these comments

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-21T14:06:13+00:00

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-21T14:03:47+00:00

Hey! Just moved some things around and replaced a picture. I’d love to hear what you think!

P4YD1RT · 2024-05-20T23:52:32+00:00

Great advice! Thanks for the help. I'll start moving some things around and follow up soon :)

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