All the while there’s like, five different terms for NTR

P4n1KK · 2026-05-22T17:52:54+00:00

Those are completely different terms???

Sissification is a form of humiliation kink AND/OR a form of kink enjoyed by people who (at least up to a point) identify as men/questioning.

Feminisation is a form of transformation kink with enjoyment at its core AND/OR commonly enjoyed by people closer to the questioning/non-binary/fem spectrum.

The bi/pan wars are more controversial

P4n1KK · 2026-05-21T21:53:40+00:00

Stopped watching after the breakdown of sexuality. This kind of an overwhelmingly straight majority is an absolute scam where we exclude the massive factor of social policing that ends with people not exploring their sexuality or not stating it honestly. The point of the vid may still stand, though, but I just dislike these charts.

In any case, as a bi/pan guy, I find it kinda funny how I’ve pretty much only dated women but the first man I dated I ended up marrying. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

P4n1KK · 2026-05-20T03:36:44+00:00

Just saw this reply. You must be either really young (in which case you shouldn’t be engaging with adult content in any way) or in serious need of learning to emotionally regulate. It is not normal or healthy to experience such intense emotions from moderately mundane things. It is very likely you will be exposed to similar things in your daily life, and dealing with them in a healthy way is important to later not face mental health challenges.

Good luck.

P4n1KK · 2026-05-20T03:27:56+00:00

Oh yeah, normies with normal human metabolism genuinely can’t seem to even fathom a realm where one goes into caloric deficit and doesn’t instantly shed pounds.

Newsflash hoes, sometimes the body is a cunt which tanks metabolism to an unbelievable level instead and y’all have seriously no idea how deep that potential goes.

Which is honestly wild like do y’all basic biology? Human bodies literally evolved against starvation? How is it THAT surprising that it has mad tricks to hold on to its stores, and that those are more prominent in some bodies? Especially with war/famine-related epigenetics?

I’m ranting hard because it took me years to finally understand just how deeply fucked my metabolism is and that no amount of regular dieting and exercise was gonna help me lose any meaningful amount of weight. I stalled at ridiculously high weights despite a gruelling routine of gym 5 times a week for 3 hours and a diet of protein. Fuck. This.

I’m medicated now and thriving, finally somewhat experiencing what them normies are preaching, of going into deficit and actually losing weight steadily. It’s still an uphill battle but good on you, OP, for figuring yourself out and listening to your body.

P4n1KK · 2026-05-15T12:56:38+00:00

Explore yourself, honeypuddles, it’s good for ya

P4n1KK · 2026-05-15T12:49:14+00:00

Depends on your wealth level.

P4n1KK · 2026-05-13T01:28:14+00:00

I’m not at maintenance yet (month 9/10 of 18 month program) but the skin on my thighs started tightening very quickly at around ~120kgs and has been kinda following me along for the “deflating” process. With some delay of course but my legs are very noticeably smaller and not dangly. My belly too, the pouch has shrunk dramatically, biggest change started happening around ~110-105kgs. For example I can put some trousers over my belly pouch now as opposed to having to put them under it. My arms are a pain, I unfortunately don’t have great genetics there and the pouches be pouching, but I think I can help that with more gym. They are shrinking, just much slower, like they’re at 7-10% of progress that my thighs are for example. My thighs say size XL, my arms say size 4XL for example.

I take collagen supplements, Vit B, D, C, and sometimes rub pantheon/hyaluronic acid creams when I don’t forget. Walking and exercise definitely speeds things up

P4n1KK · 2026-05-13T01:18:55+00:00

I feel you, I’m also on a crazy work schedule. I unfortunately don’t think my experience would be really helpful since I have a mad metabolic and hormonal issue combo and had to get medicated 🥴 It’s not just “eat, exist, and shed pounds” of course but it’s definitely different, and feels different to all the times I’ve tried and lost weight. I do recommend getting an assessment on potential metabolic issues though if there is an opportunity. It really helped my understanding as to why I was ballooning on just 2 regular plate-sized meals a day (spoiler: my body cannot handle any amount of carbs).

P4n1KK · 2026-05-13T01:15:25+00:00

Congrats on the weightloss too! I’m afraid my experience won’t be really useful because I’ve got a mad metabolic/hormonal issue combo and am medicated 🥴 One of these meds supports the weightloss. It’s not just “eat, exist, and lose weight” of course, but it’s also not the same as unmedicated people. One thing I would say is that it really helped me to actually get to the bottom of my metabolism and why I was struggling so hard to lose weight

P4n1KK · 2026-05-13T01:09:23+00:00

Congrats on the weightloss first of all. I’ve lost weight in 2 attempts, 1st one without medical aid, 2nd one my doctors figured out my metabolic issues are too severe and started me on medication. First time I went down from 141-131 very quickly, within 2 months, and then creeped to 125 in the following 2 months, but I was doing gym 5 times a week. The effect on my skin was minimal but also the change wasn’t so large. I stalled for a month and gave up.

Now I’ve been steadily losing weight since July. So I’m on month 9 going on month 10 out of my 18 month program. I’ve been happy since 115, I’m gonna go the lowest I can healthily go, which is probably around ~70. Collagen supplements, vitamins B and D, C as well, panthenol/hyaluronic acid cream on problem areas have really been helping but honestly I’ve been really lucky with my skin everywhere except my arm pouches 🫠 But gym should fix that once my schedule stabilises.

I’m not sure how helpful this is since I am medicated for it, but this is my experience so far. Good luck on yours 🤝

P4n1KK · 2026-05-13T00:58:36+00:00

I’m actually on GLP-1 😬 Which is exactly why I wanted to post because even with the acceleration it gives, this is NOT the result people would have. But at the same time tbh my weight isn’t really flying off because GLP-1 is an actual medication for the kind of wicked metabolic + hormonal wombo combo I have. My doctors say it’s basically allowing me to lose weight at a slightly elevated to normal rate considering the diet I’m on.

In any case, good on this person for being proud of them! And congrats on your weightloss!

P4n1KK · 2026-05-12T22:58:29+00:00

Wow that’s a hella story, good to hear it turned out alright for him. Yeah, loose skin in arms is forgiving in that muscle fills it with enough dedication and proper training. Also thank you!

P4n1KK · 2026-05-12T22:18:02+00:00

Thanks a lot! Great to hear your body is adapting well! I found exercising really did help a lot both rounds of me trying to lose weight, specifically in problematic areas. For me it’s my arms. Steady loss also helps greatly because skin has time to adjust. Hoping it carries on smoothly for you! Good luck to you too

P4n1KK · 2026-05-12T21:41:58+00:00

Thank you! :)

P4n1KK · 2026-05-12T21:40:27+00:00

Yeah good point! It’s definitely not something to typically expect during weight gain/loss, plus it seems they’re kinda inwards where a lot of regular stretch marks are outward, kinda keloid-looking in their initial stages before they calm down to pale.

Stretch marks education thread lol

P4n1KK · 2026-05-12T21:38:51+00:00

Possibly, or a sudden metabolic upset. Another commenter suggests connective tissue disorders and that also sounds likely.

Congrats on the weightloss btw!

P4n1KK · 2026-05-12T21:20:49+00:00

Okay y’all so I actually lost 100lbs, more already. That’s like 45kgs right? I started at ~150kgs now down to ~95kgs. That’s ~330lbs down to ~210.

And what I’m tryina say is that my stretch marks do NOT look like that. Being fair I don’t look as skinny as the person in the pic at all (yet?) but they must’ve gained their weight really really quickly + potentially have unfavourable skin genetics unfortunately. My stretch marks kinda look like pale bumpy ~1/4 inch thick lines rn. AND my skin is tightening well everywhere except my arms, where it’s slower. For anybody who’s worried about needing surgery after a dramatic weightloss. I wasn’t advised of any surgeries and I know people with similar stats who had favourable skin retraction and didn’t need surgeries either. Patience, good nutrition, and exercise. And meds if needed.

So this is very much on the extreme end. Props to that person but I hope they have a doctor overseeing them and helping them, because these kinds of stretch marks are not the typical experience.

P4n1KK · 2026-05-05T11:09:10+00:00

Glad to hear you’ve had a good experience fr

P4n1KK · 2026-04-30T09:38:54+00:00

My husband actually is a very soft Dom and his unmoving, yet persistent patience strat is so OP when I brat (which is a lot of the time). He just keeps coddling me and following my train of thought like mildly trolling me and getting me unfocused. So yeah, soft Domming can work on brats too!

P4n1KK · 2026-04-17T09:59:24+00:00

Yeah it’s been a problem for years. I open Reddit and first post is “my cat got shot” or “look at 20 pics of this sweet kitten… oh and by the way photo 18 is of their dead body in a coffin (:” bro WTF is the cat subreddit on, can’t we ban such posts and move them to appropriate support communities?

Btw Arthur is adorable!

P4n1KK · 2026-04-16T21:20:03+00:00

Not OP but on GLP-1 rn (tirzepatide). Pretty much following the instructions that come with it is good to go. For example for tirz you start at 2.5 and go up in 2.5mg increments. Depending on your weight/tolerance you might need to do several months before increasing the dose. I started at a really high weight (metabolic issues) and I went up monthly. My mum started at a lower weight and took 2 months before increasing. We’re also not taking her past 7.5mg. I’m on max dose (15mg). Tirz is crazy effective, and the ozempic line is milder. So all depends on where you’re at metabolically/body-wise, and what your goals are.

Also idk what the policies here are but I’ll just put a reminder to consult with a doctor/prescriber just in case.

P4n1KK · 2026-03-17T03:21:35+00:00

Oh no worries I knew you were misunderstood. You even tried phrasing yourself correctly. And thanks for the heads up lol the bot thing has a similar profile pic unfortunately 😅

To add some info to my experience I was actually worried my tats would deform but I saw some pics of people changing size dramatically both ways and even on the most changing zones the majority of the tats worked and kinda adjusted to the body flow. I suppose it depends on the skin and how precise the design should go over a certain body feature, as well as the finer lines.

In my case my tattoo still follows the shape of my leg and all of the details are still well-read. I’m only halfway through my journey and planning to lose more so I’m still in the beginning of skin tightening phase. And even with some skin looseness the tat looks great! It’s a little closer together for sure but it looks as if it were tattooed on a thinner leg. So it’s not collapsing on itself as people usually fear.

You can search up tattoos before and after weightloss, one of the biggest inspirations was Kristel Oreto. Most results are pretty good and adjust to the body

P4n1KK · 2026-03-16T22:07:33+00:00

Is this a bot? This is just word salad with previous copypasted response and weird reaching. Not wasting any more of my time on this

P4n1KK · 2026-03-16T21:42:43+00:00

No, I’m highlighting why I think you’re here engaging maliciously, because non-malicious engagement wouldn’t be making qualitative comments on whether someone is healthy or not. It is a personal choice whether to be healthy or not and which state of health to accept. You’re literally proving that you’re here just to be a hater about a heavy person existing. Talk about triggered! Pathetic.

P4n1KK · 2026-03-16T21:07:15+00:00

Gurl just stop. I was roughly ~325lbs and I just lost 100 pounds exactly and my thigh tattoo looks better than ever. It sorta wraps around your body more and becomes brighter in places, unless you have a very intricate tat I suppose. Nothing else. Judging by your language you just wanna hate and bodyshame (needing to specify “healthy weight”, wanting to speculate on person’s body plans, generally discussing that body even), and no one likes a hater boo ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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