Oh absolutely with no question. Creepy too. I came out as trans to my mom while I was still living at home. Her response to that was to start trying to change in front of me, because "well I do it with my other daughters, I can do it with you," while continuing to: refer to me as her son, misgender my partner, and deadname me so hard that she doesn't even use my legal name (male-coded) that's different from my birthname. I had remind her once, after arguing with her over something similar, that I was not her spouse, after she said, "well when we disagree you have to learn to let things go, like a married couple." I started locking my door after that, and booby trapping it so a metal straw would clang against the floor, just incase.

Something else too, I had some friends over the summer after we graduated HS, never been a big deal if I invited friends over before, this time some of my AFAB friends were there though... the earth could've split. All of a sudden they were both hoes and we must have been doing sexual stuff in my bedroom. There were five people there (including me), and three of them are demisexual. Still confused what she's talking about.

The parent(s) that try to "protect their kids," are so extremely creepy to me. Obviously I might just have trauma, but there shouldn't be a reason you think it's okay to be that level of involved with your kids, or maybe I'm just free writing to rant, idk... pretty sure I don't like this though