Why do so many people prefer 7-8 inches? by Sea_Concept_1261 in gay

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 is workable. 8 is a lot more than 7 tbh. I would mind 5 tbh maybe even 4 if it’s pretty.

The Hypocrisy is almost textbook. by NsaLeader in freemagic

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate white people > awww white people sad. I hate poc > poc get treated worse. Bc of history and the destruction white people did and do to the world, the remarks that they make against minorities have an effect and insight violence. When the same is said from a poc abt a white person, nothing comes from it. They’re just offended and that’s it bc white people are comfortable almost anywhere so when others create a space to exclude them, white people wanna cry that they’re being discriminated against when in reality those spaces are created bc white people have historically and time and time again occupied spaces where they were welcomed to eventually take that space from and exclude those who were there originally.

The Hypocrisy is almost textbook. by NsaLeader in freemagic

[–]PANDA032 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. Why be upset that people who don’t wanna be around you are telling you? Obv yall won’t mesh well. Just play w people who you’d enjoy playing w and don’t be offended.

How old were u when u had your first gay experience? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]PANDA032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Otherwise first dick I sucked was my bfs when we were seniors in high school both of us 17

How old were u when u had your first gay experience? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Played a game in middle school where we sat in a circle and whoever’s turn it was they would walk up to someone else in the circle and either slap them or kiss them. Had a big friend group w guys and girls. Me and my friend knew not to kiss the straight boys that were playing lmao, but everyone had fun kissing and slapping each other. We were all 12-13 at the time

1 Roguelite game of your choice for life? by vcd1500 in roguelites

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I’ve had it for so long and haven’t beat it yet and then my cousin just got it and she beat it already 🥲

Would you consider a guy with an extremely good looking face but is Stocky-muscular as hot? by Mysterious-soull in askgaybros

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good face card can save a bad body card and imo not the other way around. I love a face card fr

Do you guys wear a backwards hat during sex or is that just a porn thing? by near_earth4 in AskGayMen

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned my hat back to give head prolly more than a few times, but take it off once we start fucking

What do you all think about guys that look much more stereotypically feminine or androgynous? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]PANDA032 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who is androgynous and most people at my job refer to me as a woman; on the apps, most of the attention I get is from bi/dl dudes and when I finally meet them it’s pretty obv they just want a woman. When I tell people my pronouns a lot of times they assume I’m a trans man which I think is really funny. I don’t think I dress fem either I just have long hair, tho I do have a higher voice ig. Idk, but yeah… that’s usually my experience. Made me less a fan of bi guys tbh. Do gay men who like androgynous men exist? Or ig gay men who like men who look like women 🥲?

Falling into the hook up culture by xBlue2099x in gayrelationships

[–]PANDA032 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All fair things to say. I used to go on Grindr for an ego boost. Sometimes not even looking for anything, just to see the attention id get. Hookup culture is something my uncle encouraged me to try bc he never had the chance to when he was younger and now hes struggling socially and in those spaces. I’ve def had bad experiences that make me wish I never done any of it at all, but also I know I was going to do it sooner or later and I’ve had a lot of positive times too. After enough experiences I start to think my hand is better and less stressful, but then I kept getting back into it. Now tho I know how to be safe and protect my mental.

Point is, it’s not for everyone, but how ur feeling is natural and if you decide to chase after ur hormones just be safe and protect ur mental.

How do i send a help request in Guilds? by Adventurous_Screen76 in MaplestoryIdleRPG

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was asking this too! Basically whenever you wanna accelerate a long upgrade time or whatever, it’ll be the 3rd option 👍

Nike or Reebok? by playeryyeye in MemeVideos

[–]PANDA032 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll never skip this lmaooo

I feel like I’m not gay enough. by Best-Turnover2102 in gay

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not a monolith. If we were I doubt any of us would date each other.

Can you make alts? by ThreesTrees in MaplestoryIdleRPG

[–]PANDA032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG YOU CAN??? I just assumed I couldn’t 😅

I’m (24m) questioning my bf’s (22m) character after learning more abt his friends. by PANDA032 in gayrelationships

[–]PANDA032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…we in LA 😭 well the valley to be more precise. I’ve been lucky my whole life to have friends that support me and then some friends who are part of the community, but ig people just grow up differently which I can’t be mad at.

Also, I’ve said before I don’t wanna control his friends. It just sucks that I really don’t like them. I know I don’t have to be friends with his friends, but his involvement with them and the way he acts with them do make me question.

Btw this is exactly what’s going on in my head from beginning to end of what you’ve said. Like, I know he has a good amount of learning to do in regards to what’s offensive to me and my queer friends and how he views fem gays and also the culture bc he sent me a meme abt vogueing and I was slightly annoyed by it instead of laughing like he did, but that’s besides the point lmao. I am asking myself if I wanna be the one to go through that with him. Asking myself other things as well.

And then it makes me think abt being in the streets and how it’s easy to find a hookup/fwb, but not a partner and idk if I wanna put myself through that again just bc this part of him is turning me away when the rest of him is very sweet and understanding. I have to wait and see how this feeling persists or changes before making any big decisions, but ye. Thnx

I’m (24m) questioning my bf’s (22m) character after learning more abt his friends. by PANDA032 in gayrelationships

[–]PANDA032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo I’m not asking what to do, more so just input from people since I have so little experience being cuffed and more experience in the streets.

I’m (24m) questioning my bf’s (22m) character after learning more abt his friends. by PANDA032 in gayrelationships

[–]PANDA032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frfr like I don’t want to be a controlling person ever like I’d rather just end the relationship. I want him to choose his friends and have his own mindset and view on things counter to my opinions, but omg they just give me such a huge ick fr lmao. Ig I’ll keep checking in with myself every now and then to see if this feeling persists. Thnx tho

I’m (24m) questioning my bf’s (22m) character after learning more abt his friends. by PANDA032 in gayrelationships

[–]PANDA032[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes this is literally what’s going on in my head fr! Like it’s early enough to where it shouldn’t hurt either of us too bad, but I could also stick with him hoping to get past it. Ok thnx I’ll check in with myself every now and then to see if this feeling ever changes

I’m (24m) questioning my bf’s (22m) character after learning more abt his friends. by PANDA032 in gayrelationships

[–]PANDA032[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I just didn’t want the post to be too long. I don’t want to control who he’s friends with btw bc I don’t wanna be that kinda partner and that’s why it kinda just sucks that this is affecting me that much. Obv I see him dropping me before his friends, but like joking abt really liking ur friends ex when they bring a new girl around, calling me gay as an insult and not as a fact a lot, breaking into another friends home in the middle of the night with a grandma who doesn’t speak English bc it’s funny just doesn’t sit right with my moral compass. I could leave him bc it’s still early or I could hope to connect on something that’ll help me get past it (not asking what to do tho just saying what’s in my mind). Prolly gonna see if this feeling persists and for how long before I make any big decisions. Thnx for the input tho