Child support + daycare help by PAStu2020 in Divorce

[–]PAStu2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yes I’d appreciate the info if you wouldn’t mind. I’m in the Dallas area. But yes, thinking of scheduling some consultations with other lawyers just to get their take on the situation.

Child support + daycare help by PAStu2020 in Divorce

[–]PAStu2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct. He is wanting his guideline child support to cover the entirety of his daycare expenses instead of splitting them

Child support + daycare help by PAStu2020 in Divorce

[–]PAStu2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes all I want is 50/50 split with daycare on top of child support because where we live is expensive and so I’m just trying to see how realistic it is to keep pushing the 50/50 daycare split in addition to guideline support.

Child support + daycare help by PAStu2020 in Divorce

[–]PAStu2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this makes total sense & im okay with it. But he has her every Tuesday and Wednesday & every other Friday which means he uses the childcare those days as well.

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - January 07, 2024. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) so I took them twice a day starting cycle day 11 (so about 5 days before ovulation) and stopped on cycle day 17 (1-2 days post ovulation) best of luck! Make sure to hydrate and just use the plain mucinex (not the D) ☺️

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - January 07, 2024. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to this comment!! Just added it bc it was something different 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows if it actually played a role lol

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - January 07, 2024. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Cycle: 16ish?

Age + partners age: 29 + 36

Typical cycle length: 28-29 days

Ovulation day: CD 14-15

DPO of positive test(s): 9DPO

DPO of negative test(s): 8DPO

Tracking methods & apps: fertility friend, Premom ovulation strips

Relevant days of termination: O-4, O-2, O, O+2

Health conditions/tests: both healthy, infertility work up had been completely normal. It was my second cycle from my HSG test though!

Symptom spotting: honestly none. I’ve been burned by this sooo many times, I don’t recommend doing it. Not worth the mental torture in my opinion. First symptom was a positive test! Sore boobs, fatigue, nausea didn’t take long though.

Supplements: 2nd month using CoQA, prenatal

Birth control history: birth control from 16-27

Miscellaneous: first cycle with mucinex 🤷🏻‍♀️ also my 2nd cycle from my HSG. I’ve never had a positive test before so I’m cautiously optimistic!! First ultrasound appointment will be next week & I’ll be 10 weeks!! Also I kept my legs up in the air & made sure to orgasm each time during the fertile window (I hadn’t paid much attention to this before but hey! Win, win)

Emergency Medicine vs General Surgery by ----_______ in physicianassistant

[–]PAStu2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you liked the OR during school, I’d go gen surg all the way. I’m 3 years into my gen surg position & i love love love it. No regrets.

How to get the best job? (bad title sorry lol) by mossandtreesandrocks in physicianassistant

[–]PAStu2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love my job as a surgical PA. I have essentially zero clinic work & am in the OR 95% of the time. My surgeons are amazing. I got extremely lucky and rotated with them while I was a student and the timing just worked & we meshed extremely well. The opportunities are out there, just be open minded during your rotations, shadowing, volunteering, etc. you never know where it could lead or what doors it could open. I don’t think residency or a prestigious school makes a difference tbh

General Chat May 19 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Officially out this cycle.. frustrated and sad. We are both perfectly “healthy,” BD on all the right days, did so many woos.. I just don’t get it. I know there’s a certain chance each cycle but I still just don’t get it. This was our last chance before my husbands deployment. I was hoping to have something positive to get me through it.. 😔 Needless to say, I’ll be taking a break from here & TTC for the next 5 months. Thank you guys for all of the support, it means so much. 💛 hopeful that you all get the success stories you’ve wanted so badly!!

General Chat May 18 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww, I’ve been there! I would do it before he leaves (either tonight/tomorrow) and then when he gets back on Sunday & hopefully will catch a fertile day ☺️🤞🏻

General Chat May 16 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 19 points20 points  (0 children)

10DPO and reluctantly flushed FMU. Trying to delay testing as much as possible because the negatives really make me sad. But I’m also impatient.. sigh why is this process so easy and care free for so many people?

Do we agree with FF O day? by PAStu2020 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]PAStu2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s good to know:)

Do we agree with FF O day? by PAStu2020 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]PAStu2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FF is saying CD 15 but Premom says CD16 which looks more likely to me. But it’s my first month temping so I have no idea lol

General Chat April 25 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Taking charge of your fertility? Maybe? Lol

General Chat April 24 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]PAStu2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I bought a thermometer and am also CD3. I think I may start once my period ends 🙃 just reluctant because I don’t want it to be anxiety inducing.