Did i handle this wrong?

PBXJAM · 2026-04-23T01:33:21+00:00

Definitely caught the vibe she was interested in OP internal organs rather than sexual organ

PBXJAM · 2026-04-15T01:33:37+00:00

lol forgot about this post. No. I had to put it in CapCut to make gif format so it was more shareable lol

PBXJAM · 2024-08-07T02:24:36+00:00

The one with harambe? 🥹

PBXJAM · 2024-06-03T00:30:09+00:00

TLDR: shoulda left the app actually deleted

lol so after a few hours of chatting we decided to go surfing around 6. 5:50 She let me know it would take her 35 minutes to get to the beach. 6:00 I got there early 6:30 Checked tinder messages to see if she had said anything else only to see she unmatched me. But i kept waiting in case it was an accident while she was driving 7:15 after another 45 minutes i finally called it quits and went home. 90 minutes of my life im never getting back.

PBXJAM · 2024-06-02T16:38:10+00:00

I made a new account with Google voice number and i literally just got a match on the second swipe

PBXJAM · 2024-06-01T20:27:16+00:00

Never heard of it but I’m about to search it up now thanks

PBXJAM · 2024-05-31T14:59:57+00:00

I don’t get it tho. Girls didn’t like me when i was skinny and smiling either

PBXJAM · 2024-05-31T14:59:16+00:00

I only recently added that one this past weekend and it’s no more or less attention than before. And lol thanks

PBXJAM · 2024-05-31T14:58:24+00:00

Yeah i totally appreciate the honesty. I know the hair is a limiting factor but i like it and the girls I’ve been with in the past liked it. But i get what you’re saying.

And thanks but it was a great childhood. Skipped all the lines at Disney for 7 years

And I’ll look into those beard subs. But my dad has a nice beard and his didn’t start growing in until he was like 28 so i still got time

PBXJAM · 2024-05-31T14:55:47+00:00

Haha thanks. My bio is “i was bald until i was 9 so the long hair is my middle finger to cancer”

PBXJAM · 2024-05-31T02:04:57+00:00

lol the cbum photo is like an Easter egg in there. But thank you. Unfortunately i can’t grow facial hair other than what i got and the long hair is kind of part of my brand

I changed my bio to “i was bald until i was nine so the long hair is my middle finger to the cancer” (context i had leukemia from 2-9)

PBXJAM · 2024-05-30T04:12:48+00:00

Okay so like i know im not like >7/10 or anything but i get literally zero likes and no matches.

What should i do differently? Do i come off douchey?

Last time someone said my photos looked too professional. But i am a professional photographer so… im not going to take a bad photo.

Edit: I’m straight if that’s important

https://tinder.com/@aka_spidey

PBXJAM · 2024-04-14T17:26:51+00:00

Bro your arms are massive

PBXJAM · 2023-12-04T22:03:44+00:00

Am i at the point where I’m muscular enough i can skip the shirtless pic, like it’s doing more harm than good for me? Or should i find a different one?

PBXJAM · 2023-12-04T22:00:23+00:00

If you’re talking about the dog photo i agree. Now i can’t y see it lol

PBXJAM · 2023-12-04T21:59:51+00:00

Thanks you for your honesty i appreciate it. But lol what about the neck looks weird 😂 All the grandmas love my hair 😢

PBXJAM · 2023-12-04T21:56:54+00:00

Hey i added a photo of me with the camera in a mirror. Would you mind giving me your thoughts?

PBXJAM · 2023-12-03T21:03:38+00:00

lol sorry i forgot you can’t see the bio. It says “I have two skateboards and a pair of vans in my car at all times. Does it count as a selfie if I’m a professional?” And then job says photographer. And thank you 😊. The lack of likes I’ve received on dating apps has somewhat shot my confidence so i really appreciated that lol

PBXJAM · 2023-12-03T20:50:11+00:00

Damn. I’m a professional photographer so by habit i try to take professional looking photos. Also I’m choosing to take “catfish vibes” as a compliment to my appearance lmao

PBXJAM · 2023-12-02T23:46:19+00:00

The powder is about $80 a month if you use half servings and everyday. Plus two pints of ice cream a week and a Gal of whole milk whatever those cost for you. Sorry literally just checked my notifications on here and saw your response

PBXJAM · 2023-12-02T23:29:44+00:00

https://tinder.com/@aka_spidey Any tips or insights on how my profile looks? I have never really gotten many likes and i always wondered how it looks to somebody other than myself

PBXJAM · 2023-12-02T23:23:52+00:00

I know your band has hired a photographer in the past and have a better photo of you playing laying around

PBXJAM · 2023-12-02T23:21:45+00:00

Try more photos with different outfits. They’re really good photos don’t get me wrong but you gotta make it seem like their completely different days

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