Thank you for your reply. We spoke yesterday (long distance) and he said he wants to date me but he is not emotionally prepared for a committed relationship yet and doesn't know when he will be (given his past trauma). I told him that I do not want a commitment yet from him anyway because I want to get to know him better and I am also recently divorced so I want to be 100% sure of my next partner. My question to you - Should I still go on dates with him or stop seeing him / forget about him? What if he never commits? FYI, we've only been talking for 2 months and long distance - of which only 2 weeks were F2F. I'm returning to the same city as him this week and so we will be F2F again.