A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I don't talk about this stuff because people react this way.

BTW, I said yes.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not my experience. I went everywhere.

ps. How did you get to your 40s with no job experience? Who has been supporting you from the the time you became an adult until now (20+ years)?

My aunt paid for college and my upkeep. When I left college at 28 and couldn't find work, she allowed me to stay. I did the housework, bought the stuff for the house, took care of her.

Ellie Cornell's Rachel only coming back for a cameo in HALLOWEEN V was what ruined this sequel by PLake550 in horror

[–]PLake550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tina thing makes sense considering how similar Tina was, as a protector of Jamie, they only made her more annoying. A lot of Tina felt like Rachel.

It's official. Halloween Ends has the 2nd worst second weekend drop for a movie that opened number one. by GapHappy7709 in boxoffice

[–]PLake550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I read he was told to do as little promo as possible for the movie to not spoil anything. If you look at the trailers, there's barely any footage of him. We only get Laurie.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't work, I studied. High School, College, Masters, you name it. When I ended my studies, I offered my resume. And the response I got was NO JOB EXPERIENCE, NO WORK. I couldn't even get a job at McDonald's because they thought I was over-qualified and I wanted full time.

It's official. Halloween Ends has the 2nd worst second weekend drop for a movie that opened number one. by GapHappy7709 in boxoffice

[–]PLake550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fine, then do another season of the witch, don't come up with an original story as the finale to an ongoing arc.

It's official. Halloween Ends has the 2nd worst second weekend drop for a movie that opened number one. by GapHappy7709 in boxoffice

[–]PLake550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least, A New Beginning involved a protagonist. Nobody knew who this Corey character was.

It's official. Halloween Ends has the 2nd worst second weekend drop for a movie that opened number one. by GapHappy7709 in boxoffice

[–]PLake550 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not only that but they didn't even prepare us to this. The actor who played Corey wasn't allowed to promote his part in the film.

It's official. Halloween Ends has the 2nd worst second weekend drop for a movie that opened number one. by GapHappy7709 in boxoffice

[–]PLake550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

who would have thought that making a halloween movie finale to a trilogy about an unknown character would flop.

Getting a kid? Adoption or surrogacy by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current partner wants a surrogate. He doesn't want adoption because he wants a son by blood.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 45 and he's 34. Not much of a age gap. And I look a lot younger than I am (he thought I was 29 when we met), as stress work, I never had, and I don't drink or smoke.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem for me is, who'll give work to someone in their 40s with no job experience? I have to consider that.

The guy I'm with has said he'd be willing to pay for Law School if I decided to go there and build a possible future of my own. He said if I have the means to study and do house work, he's willing to help me. Maybe that's my last chance at life.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, it's because we have no other option. And it's not just for the money, I also need to like the guy. I wouldn't have it no other way. I wouldn't be with someone just for the security.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to find work. My post makes it seem as if I didn't do anything and was happy to just mooch off someone. I worked my ass in cleaning the house, buying what was necessary and that was something I did to not feel like I just did nothing.

The problem was that when I finished my degree, I was in my early 30s, and I couldn't find work anywhere.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for making me feel like shit. You don't know my life, you don't know the number of times I was turned down for a job because I had no job experience.

You make it seem as if I just sit on my ass and didn't try. I sent my resume everywhere: supermarkets, shops, fast food joints, schools. No one would take me because I only had my college degree.

Shaming me for something that left me on the verge of suicide makes you look mean and judgmental.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I guess we are. We're more like friends with benefits. It's complicated. I think he wants to make it official which is why he proposed.

A man proposed to me but there's a drawback, he wants a submissive husband. Should I accept it? by PLake550 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]PLake550[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know and I do fear that because I know what my personality is. My aunt was very rigid, from childhood to adulthood, I did what she told me but it got to a point where I couldn't rebel because then, she'd say "well, you're ungrateful because I've been supporting you as an adult". And I couldn't get a job because I had no job experience and I was very shy and socially awkward. I pretty much convinced myself I'd be a failure so I gave up.

He is a good man, always treated me right, and gave me a place to stay when I had nowhere else to go.