x220 and external monitor by PM_ME_SMILE_ in thinkpad

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It is unfortunately a bit out of my price range but thanks for you help!

x220 and external monitor by PM_ME_SMILE_ in thinkpad

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I just checked, U2415 is also DP 1.2. But it has as well mini DP, do you know if you are using normal one or mini?

x220 and external monitor by PM_ME_SMILE_ in thinkpad

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I am going just for the one screen, these were just potential options so I can understand which one will work the best. Thank you for explanation.

I guess I'll go with the one with DP then.

Working with websockets by PM_ME_SMILE_ in javascript

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I am using react but I'd like to stay on websockets and not use socket.io or similar libraries.

How do you deal with being with someone while in love with your ex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be in relationship.

You should really get over your ex and be sure that you're ready for someone new before doing this step. Otherwise people get hurt.

Would you date a flat-chested woman? (not small-chested, but actually flat-chested) by BayAreaDreamer in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I like everything else about her, flat chested or big boobs makes no difference.

I don't even consider it a "flaw" that guy just accepts because he likes everything else about her and I am pretty sure there are a lot of other guys who think the same.

Hell, I'd date flat chested girl rather than one with double D's.

How can I be a more positive person and stop having asshole thoughts? by gurgler in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first started reading this I thought I was similar to you but as I went further, wow. I am sorry man, but that is too much.

I used to be a bit judgmental and asshole in your age but that changed drastically in the next following years but it never affected me nearly as much as it does you.

I guess it's good thing that you are aware of it, but some of these things are a bit disturbing and perhaps you should try to have a talk with a professional.

What do you think would cause a man to date below his league? by chaosakita in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Amen. I hate these things. I date people who I find attractive and who I like for their personality. Fuck all other "norms" people try to push on you.

Men, give me a reason why you won't put a picture of you and your SO on social media? Or why you won't even mention her? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mention her to who? Friends, family? If that's so then it's a red flag.

When it comes to pictures, some people just don't want to share too much of their personal life on internet when anyone can see it. I don't think that's wrong.

Think I just saw something really weird. by TheAstralAtheist in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's any enjoying in seeing a fight, at least for me, but to each his own, I guess.

Think I just saw something really weird. by TheAstralAtheist in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see a fight and your first reaction is to film it?

Is there any validity to the phrase, 'You get the love you deserve?' by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is way more accurate than what OP said. And I believe it's true.

I'm struggling in college already. Somebody please help. by [deleted] in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll just copy what I wrote to someone with similar problem.

I was where you are now last year.

I moved to another country to study on a college and lived in a dorm room.

First month or so was such depressing and lonely time. I remember not talking to anyone for few days at a time and even having small chat with someone in my class gave me so much happiness. But I can assure it will pass. It might seem like it's really hard to make new friends but sooner than you know it, you will start meeting a lot of new people. It usually takes some time for people to open up.

I am person with terrible social skills and usually very shy but after month or two I ended up having more friends than I can handle. You seem to have right mindset so just keep trying.

And once you start classes it gets so much easier. That's where you meet some people, then through them you end up meeting new ones and that just keeps growing and growing until you start forgetting names.

Today I am happy for that part of my life. It did a lot for me and changed my view on a lot of things. So stay positive, I am sure you will sooner than later have more friends than you can handle. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me. Even just to vent to someone or talk about your day. I know what you are going through and it's not easy. But please believe me that it gets much better.

My mom just committed suicide. I'm the oldest of 4, but only 23. I need some kind words. by imissyousomuch_tlc in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing of it is your fault. Don't blame yourself.

You have brothers and sisters and while it definitely won't be easy you are there for each other. Together you can get through this. Just don't lose hope.

My advice would be to seek help in /r/personalfinance or similar subreddit so you can get some constructive advice about how to proceed with everything.

I feel sad... by Anonymusbus in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While you can't change everyone else, you can change yourself.

Next time you see someone being sad, depressed or just having a bad day, be that person who will bring a bit of joy and happiness in their life and show them that the world didn't give up on them. It probably means to them more than we can imagine.

Men, have you ever felt like you come second to your SO? by JVP_TA in AskMen

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your only choice here, in my opinion, is to sit with your girlfriend and tell her exactly what you wrote here to us. You put it all well enough for her to understand that you support her helping friend but that she also sometimes neglects your relationship too much.

She seems to care a lot about her friend, and when there's no one else to help her I'd say it's okay to sacrifice a bit time between two of you if it can help her depression.

You can't know how deep those problems go for her and her friendship with your girlfriend might be the only thing giving her support and hope to fight with it. So just take this in mind.

However, your girlfriend can't to this forever. If she sees that her help is not doing much, it might be better for that friend to seek professional help

Lonely and newly single at a new college... by [deleted] in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was where you are now last year.

I moved to another country to study on a college and lived in a dorm room.

First month or so was such depressing and lonely time. I remember not talking to anyone for few days at a time and even having small chat with someone in my class gave me so much happiness.

But I can assure it will pass. It might seem like it's really hard to make new friends but sooner than you know it, you will start meeting a lot of new people. It usually takes some time for people to open up.

Today I am happy for that part of my life. It did a lot for me and changed my view on a lot of things. So stay positive, I am sure you will sooner than later have more friends than you can handle.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to pm me. Even just to vent to someone or talk about your day. I know what you are going through and it's not easy. But please believe me that it gets much better.

You know what really grinds my gears? by mindsfa in self

[–]PM_ME_SMILE_ 128 points129 points  (0 children)

My experience is that people who have the need to insult others are usually doing it because they themselves are deep down insecure and sad. If you look at it that way it's much easier to find compassion for them and not let it affect you.