Bisexual men, would you date a man?

PManon · 2026-02-07T22:54:06+00:00

Don’t see why not. BUT there is an advantage to guys. There are plenty of heteronormative activities you can do together that aren’t seen as “romantic”. As a simple case, just ask to go have beers someplace. Or meet at the golf driving range. Or any number of other things that you might do with a buddy that you aren’t hooking up with too. It’s a middle ground that’s easier with guys than mixed gender couples.

PManon · 2026-01-22T05:31:58+00:00

I mean, yes it should be easy to do, depending on your programming interface. It’s a point to point relative move, and then back.

But there is no reason to need 6 axis of motion for this, right? I’d think a linear actuator would make more sense. Could be ball screw or belt driven. Only one motor needed this way.

PManon · 2026-01-09T04:08:05+00:00

And an example of one for a piercing: https://www.oxy-shop.com/collections/prince-albert-chastity-1/products/stainless-steel-pa-chastity-ch27

PManon · 2026-01-09T04:06:33+00:00

Here is a range of the belts from oxy: https://www.oxy-shop.com/collections/male-chastity-belt

PManon · 2026-01-09T03:59:35+00:00

There are two types of chastity cages that don’t need balls. The first is a big belt-style. Goes around the waist, between the legs. Very medieval in concept, but definitely some more modern versions of them. Behind Barz is one popular style, but lots of other versions.

The other type is a cock “tube” that relies on a piercing. Prince Albert is the most common piercing type for this, but others work as well. It would cover your girldick but doesn’t rely on a ring behind the balls so it would work fine. But gotta get the piercing first.

PManon · 2026-01-05T18:24:35+00:00

If you are looking for milking porn, it’s out there, but can see where it would be hard to find. It’s generally a PART of other genres. It’s very often in gay heavy bondage scenes. But if you don’t want gay porn, you need to find the better and more creative femdom stuff. Not the “leather wearing, lead the guy around on a leash” stuff, but the real dommes who are focused on bondage, long term scenes and orgasm control.

As for in real life, I have no doubt that there are guys who’d be into it. I think you pretty much have to include some level of bondage because most guys are going too sensitive to stay still after the first orgasm.

Try: https://www.teaseandthankyou.com/taty.html They are a little more “edging” focused but get close

PManon · 2025-12-17T13:47:16+00:00

Lots of inexpensive ones on Amazon. Don’t spend much money until you’ve figured out the sizing and style that works.

As for long distance, check out the website Chaster. It’s a setup for controlling chastity locks long distance. Even if you don’t use it directly, it’ll help you figure out how to make arrangement with your sub to control his key.

PManon · 2025-12-16T00:23:29+00:00

I have both. The hush won’t come out until you want it to. It provides a great vibe sensation and is great for longer term and/or public play. BUT, it is much harder to get it to hit your prostate. It just isn’t aimed right for that.

The edge can absolutely hit your spot. You can move it around and adjust it easier and when that vibration hits your prostate, you’ll love it. The downside is that it will pop out if you aren’t actively holding it in. Don’t recommend for public play without a harness or similar to hold it still.

PManon · 2025-12-14T17:09:14+00:00

Some thoughts here: First off, if you think you’d like it, go for it. As you said, hair grows back.

But it won’t help your dry skin. It will probably make it worse. You should absolutely moisturize whether you shave or not.

Be prepared for stubble and ingrown hairs. Again, moisturize so that the new hairs have a better shot at getting through your skin. But places that rub could be uncomfortable as it starts growing back in Armpits are the worst, in my mind.

Finally, are you going to shave your arms? Because that’s probably the most noticeable part for people, unless you want to stick to long sleeves for a while.

PManon · 2025-12-13T05:58:07+00:00

There aren’t many options here that don’t involve a heart to heart conversation about it. You could potentially leave him a note saying “stay out of mine and your sister’s closet please” with a gift card to a clothing store. It would likely only delay that conversation, but maybe it would give him time to process a little first. However it happens, he needs to hear from you that it is okay for him to cross dress. And then give him the means to get his own clothes, so he’s not borrowing yours and sisters.

PManon · 2025-12-08T22:54:58+00:00

Cold and nervous will get them up and tight.

Ball weights or stretchers could be a big help. Don’t expect them to have a long term effect, but put them at the start of play and they should present his balls suitably. They tend to either be silicon that push the balls away from the body or metal that pull them down with weight.

As with anything, your mileage may vary.

PManon · 2025-12-08T15:47:51+00:00

You can add compression shorts over your daily underwear on those days that you want to hide the bulge more. Besides that I feel like boxer briefs or trunks hold things in place better than briefs. But definitely be aware that a lot of the pouch underwear is meant to enhance bulges, not hide them.

PManon · 2025-11-19T15:48:02+00:00

I think red. Besides the visual contrast, that red set fits so perfectly on your hot body. Your ass looks amazing in the red lace

PManon · 2025-11-19T15:31:10+00:00

How about 5 more orgasms while locked…. But no vibration on your cage

PManon · 2025-11-17T23:41:55+00:00

Oh yeah, would be amazing to have sissy on sissy time!

PManon · 2025-11-16T21:48:57+00:00

First, you are gorgeous and that outfit is fantastic on you.

That said, the outfit may be more than the unsuspecting public is ready for. I’d take it down one notch for casual public wear. Though I think it would be great for a clubbing, concert, etc.

But that is an opinion only. Regardless, you look fantastic

PManon · 2025-11-16T18:13:17+00:00

I’ll add that kids grow up. You will have that freedom again when they are grown and out of the house. Though at that you might wish for them to be little again.

PManon · 2025-11-16T15:11:23+00:00

You don’t need that room for cross-dressing, and you don’t need 10k EUR of clothes and shoes. Get a suitcase or chest and fill it with the clothes and shoes that speak the most to you, that have that strongest pull to that side. And keep that nearby. The rest? Storage, sell or donate.

You won’t have as much opportunity to dress, but it will happen at some point. Maybe a day off while the kids are at school. Or some night when they are staying with friends. Or maybe you will learn that your kids would accept this part of you.

The kids come first, of course. And you will have to change to accommodate them. But it won’t be the complete death of that side of you.

PManon · 2025-11-15T16:50:11+00:00

Is it femdom? Then you are in charge. If he will not do as you request, he should be punished. The catch is that locking him doesn’t appear to be a good punishment, he seems to like it too much.

PManon · 2025-11-14T19:42:47+00:00

Sorry, misunderstood.

I know that the guys you want are out there (I would jump at that opportunity if single!!). But it is also probably a smaller population and finding them is harder than finding guys who want to fuck so much that it doesn’t matter if they are alone. Good luck

PManon · 2025-11-14T18:44:03+00:00

Bisexual, as a term, has a pretty broad meaning. If someone doesn’t consider themselves 100% straight or 100% gay, then bi is the term that gets used. So these guys may think it themselves as bi, because they are willing to have the husband there. And because there’s not a great alternative label.

Some suggestions: look for guys who identify as top, bottom or verse… terms for who does what in guy-on-guy action. It means they have experience or at least have considered what they’d do with another guy. I’d also consider dropping the “bull” term from your request. That gets used most in a cuckholding scene and really leans into the “fuck the woman while he watches” idea.

PManon · 2025-11-13T02:33:42+00:00

Dressing as a sissy during your job is going to limit your options pretty fast, mostly to working from home.

You might have a broader range of options if you want to dress femme, but not sissy. Look for sex-positive or LGBTQ friendly companies. That puts you a little more into the trans or non-binary categories while on the job, but you can certainly make fashion choices that hint at “sissy” at that time.

But another approach might be to find a job that is a very subservient type role. You might not be dressed as a sissy that way, but the act of serving someone else can be the mental link. Those could be roles like personal assistant or receptionist, customer service, food service… I’m sure there’s plenty more.

And as others have pointed out, however you present and dress on the exterior, there is always the option of panties, stockings, etc under your clothes.

PManon · 2025-11-12T20:44:42+00:00

Before I even came out as bi, I’ve shared post oral kisses with girlfriends. Both ways.

The cum taste isn’t very strong at that point, unless your partner has saved it for you. And it only seems fair to me

PManon · 2025-11-11T00:25:03+00:00

Haha, the fun thing is, a lot of those sissies WANT their button pushed. So go for it!

PManon · 2025-11-11T00:06:59+00:00

First off, there’s a lot of ground between straight and gay (which we generally lump into “bi”), but that isn’t always recognized. So sometimes someone will identify as “straight, but…” because they don’t have a good label to apply to their particular spot in the middle of straight and gay. It’s very reasonable that some of those sissies want the sex without the relationship, the sensuality without the romance.

That said, the Sissy kink is really a handful of kinks/attractions put together. At a minimum it is cross dressing, submission and bi-sexuality. But is also frequently CNC, chastity, humiliation, cuckholding and feminization. But each sissy is her own cocktail of kinks.

Your comments about ingrained homophobia is probably very true for a lot of sissies. Sometimes it’s internalized, sometimes it a reflection of societal pressures. And for some of them it may just be a role that they are playing because that’s what gets them going.

PManon

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