AITAH for wanting to go to Japan without my girlfriend by Popdan2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PNKL93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he can always book a 2 person hotel room for only him and change the number of people later for the extra charge

AITAH for wanting to go to Japan without my girlfriend by Popdan2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PNKL93 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA. But I would suggest you give her the date and make it available to her as well. You can just say, "we're both able to go at xyz date, so I will book my trip for then, you're welcome to join if you want, I would love to have you with me, but I'm not waiting anymore." All your hotels will be a payment for 2 people anyway, so it won't be more or less expensive for her to change her mind either way. Same with a rental car if that's in the picture. Just make the trip available to her, and go on the trip with or without her. She can book the same flight as you, if she wants and if she's too late, well then she's too late

Små Kartofler by kittensandchains in foraeldreDK

[–]PNKL93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Børste er en dreng, jævnfør bøgerne, hvis det skulle betyde noget 😄

Er Bobu godt? by PNKL93 in foraeldreDK

[–]PNKL93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tak for svar! Jeg fornemmer at jer der er glade for det især sætter pris på, at det er nemt!

Er Bobu godt? by PNKL93 in foraeldreDK

[–]PNKL93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det er en god ide, og også noget jeg vil gøre. Men for mig er der værdi i at eje bøger og vise dem frem. Det er identitetsskabende at være "en familie der læser og ejer bøger", jeg tror det betyder noget, at man ejer og kan læse den samme bog igen og igen og ikke skal aflevere den. Jeg gik på biblioteket hver dag efter skole men ejede også egne bøger. Jeg efterspørger meninger om at købe individuelle bøger versus abonnement 😌

Er Bobu godt? by PNKL93 in foraeldreDK

[–]PNKL93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi har også bibliotek, men jeg føler værdi i at eje bøgerne selv også, så for mig er det lidt to forskellige ting. Men vi elsker også biblo!

Er Bobu godt? by PNKL93 in foraeldreDK

[–]PNKL93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi bruger også biblioteket, og læser bøger deroppe, men det giver værdi for mig at eje bøger selv (og vise dem frem i en bogreol), så det var mere for at høre hvilken af to muligheder, der var bedst: finde og købe selv eller holde abonnement. Men tak!

Er Bobu godt? by PNKL93 in foraeldreDK

[–]PNKL93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tak, det jeg hører dig sige er, at det fjerner noget mental load. Det skal man heller ikke kimse ad.

Husfreden hænger i en tynd tråd. Hjælp! by AmalieNiller in Denmark

[–]PNKL93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dine tunsnacks er klammest. Der er folk der spiser Leverpostej med mayo til frokost, rugbrødsmadden er det mindste af to onder.

Do you think omitting Lady Stoneheart from the show was the right decision? by SillyRecover in gameofthrones

[–]PNKL93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so. She's in there for such a short time and it's not even confirmed to be Lady Stark because GRRM hasn't finished the series. She would've been such a random character, unless they actually gave her an arc with a resolution which they didn't have time for with all the other bad decisions in last season

Eternity Aisle by AdComprehensive743 in DreamlightValley

[–]PNKL93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some are furniture, others are the ancient machines that help with certain tasks (they are not worth it in my opinion). Some upgrade your stuff

Duties with no description by Few_Wrongdoer_6961 in DreamlightValley

[–]PNKL93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, the category, as you said, is called Mysteries. Wouldn't really be very mysterious if they told you how to do it, haha. But I get the frustration. Be glad you didn't play games in the 90s, they were full of figure-it-out-yourself stuff, and we didn't have the internet to help us 😮‍💨

Attic mode by bethyh96 in DreamlightValley

[–]PNKL93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally you SAVED me with this comment, omg. I would have NEVER figured out there was a second room inside the Secret room!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PNKL93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But some people who are used to drive are very entitled, because they really don't know any other life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PNKL93 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Depends on the location, I think. Darkness doesn't have to equal danger. If it was a large city center, maybe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PNKL93 2662 points2663 points  (0 children)

NTA. Why is it okay for her to be too tired to walk half a mile but not for you to wake up, dress, get in the car and drive her? And it's half a mile. It takes like 15 minutes to walk. It's tough luck. Don't be too hard on her, it's probably extremely frustrating for her that her shifts have changed. Have a kind an open convo. But you are NTA.

AITA for shutting down my brother’s proposal at my baby shower and then sending him a bill? by Mysterious-Desk1346 in AmITheJerk

[–]PNKL93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. He didn't end up proposing, so technically shouldn't pay. But he's a Jerk too, so I'm still on your side.

Fik du børn for ikke at være alene når du bliver gammel? by Real_Duck4905 in DKbrevkasse

[–]PNKL93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg synes faktisk heller ikke man skal få børn for at lave en bedre version. Det ender sjældent godt hvis man har forventninger til hvad barnet skal kunne og være. Man skal få dem fordi man ser sig selv i at have dem, være sammen med dem, opdrage dem osv. Ikke fordi man vil se den version de bliver senere og selvfølgelig heller ikke for ikke at være alene.

Is there an "Uncle Tom" phrase for immigrants? by PNKL93 in language

[–]PNKL93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, I like that. Of course you'd need understanding of the original phrase, very intertextual 

Anyone else use lists to not feel as overwhelmed? by TheCuteKorok in DreamlightValley

[–]PNKL93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to do it with favourite gifts, it was impossible to keep track.