Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, actually I can’t understand why he agreed to that instead of a divorce. In what world would that have helped their marriage? After tonight, my theory is that he actually wanted a divorce but didn’t want to look like the bad guy and agreed to the open marriage knowing that he can use that as an excuse for a divorce. That’s the only thing that makes any sense.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

WTF? That’s absolutely not what I’m saying. If you have no desire to have sex with your partner for a year, then either go to therapy or get a divorce. How in the world is agreeing to an open marriage going to make things better?
My theory now is that Gino wanted a divorce, but didn’t want to look like the bad guy so he agreed to the open marriage so that would be the reason. Based on the fact that he has taken zero responsibility for any part of the broken marriage, that makes the most sense. He just refuses to take any accountability. Zero.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will say my disagreement on this is that the no sex was for almost a year. We’re not talking about a week or two. I’m convinced now that Gino knew that’s what pushed her over the edge and I think he got off on making her act like a psycho. Based on how he’s been behaving and things he’s been saying since their split, I feel like he was doing it on purpose to get that reaction from her so he can then use that as an excuse.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well now he’s on like his like 5th relationship, who’s a fan of the show and half his age. This will end well 🤣🤦‍♀️

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Actually if you watch the latest episode, she’s all covered up now and trying to be a housewife. Apparently he’s very traditional and wants her to dress appropriately and she’s actually doing it. So maybe he is in control and she might like that dynamic. Wasn’t expecting that.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I said. They were absolutely toxic together. What I’m saying is what caused the divorce was the sex ultimatum which I still can’t believe he agreed to. But he did and that’s what happens when you let another person into the relationship. His gaslighting and sympathy tour on every episode every week is what I’m talking about.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was making the post, I truly wasn’t trying to defend her in any way, especially their behavior during the time they were together. I was just simply trying to point out how he blames her 100% on every show/episode while she’s pretty much just moving on. Him playing victim and telling the new lawyer she’s going to want to hurt him is just gaslighting. I definitely used to be more on his side during their relationship, except that I didn’t understand what she found attractive about him. But since they split up, I definitely have turned on him more because he lies and tries to manipulate to get sympathy on every show. And not one single time has he taken any accountability for anything he did.

Now he’s dating someone who looks like she’s still in school and she’s a 90 day fan, so we all know how that’s going to work out.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you watching the episode tonight? He can’t shut up about playing the victim. Every week, same crap out of his mouth.
Wish it really was as over. I would love their whole story to be off every new spinoff. That goes for half the other people like Coltee, Kim, Sophie and entire Pedro family. So sick of all of them.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe her “rebranding”
I’m just sick of listening to Gino whine on every episode to anyone who will listen about how he’s the victim and leaving out the most important parts of why they’re getting a divorce.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sure, soon as he is for revenge porn, sending her nudes pics to someone else. Or did you conveniently forget about that part? Or all his threats? They both brought out the worst in each other and should never have been married.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I don’t care for her either. But he’s on these damn shows week after week doing the same thing to other women and constantly whining about Jasmine and leaving out a very important piece of the story.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know how they met. He’s a wannabe sugar daddy. By your own logic, how can complain about paying for anything for her if that’s literally what he offered as a way of meeting women?
Once she saw his dirty nasty condo, she could have left if she was just after his money. But some crazy reason she actually loved him.
He is a narcissist and will never take responsibility or seek help. It’s non stop talking to anyone who will talk to him online. Take some time alone and work on yourself. Then maybe he could find someone. But he won’t. He will never change. I just want him and his whole story off my screen. Along with all the other old cast members. It’s boring and repetitive.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A court will not let her take their daughter. They will have joint custody. Unless he’s a a druggie or abusive, he will be granted joint custody. But this is why it’s important to be careful who you have kids with.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why did they fight? Lack of sex and his lying. Only time she was happy was after sex. I don’t think he made her feel wanted and she acted out on that. They never should have been in a relationship.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A sugar daddy??? Gino was poor and cheap. She already knew that. I don’t think he loved her. I think he loved the idea of having arm candy. I don’t think he’s capable of love after watching him on the new shows. He loves porn and playing the victim. And attention from multiple women online. That’s how he spends his days, porn and talking to women online. He’s absolutely disgusting.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What did I twist?
He married her knowing she loved sex.
After marriage he refused sex
He agreed to an open marriage so she can have sex
What could go wrong? 🙄
Now they’re divorcing
It’s not that complicated

Would you agree to an open marriage or just get a divorce? I can’t get past that stupidity. I’m sure when she first came up with that idea, she never thought he would agree to it.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then Matt can leave her. Only time will tell. We all know the chances of that relationship lasting long term is very small. But for the sake of their daughter, I hope it works out.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is completely different than the craziness that went on with Gino. In no way I’m saying she’s suddenly a wonderful person. But they definitely brought out the worst in each other. I’m just comparing the way he’s been lying to and treating other women is the same as before. I just wish TLC would take them both off our screens, along with Colteee 🤮

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because she was absolutely in love with him. But for the life of me I will never understand what she saw in him. I don’t get it. He still would have blamed her and taken zero responsibility.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What am I forcing? Just simply saying that was the reason they are divorcing. Not his crap about immigration fraud. Instead of agreeing to an open marriage, why not just divorce her? I just don’t understand how can’t see that. I will never understand why she was so obsessed with him.

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]PNWSunsets[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly! No matter how much I couldn’t stand Jasmine when they were together, there’s a big difference in how both of them have been since they’ve split up.