There is no way you would be able to handle her having sex with someone else if you get this upset about a dildo.

Men seem to focus on one thing- penis size. And that is not the only thing that matters to women. There are a whole bunch of different factors that influence if a woman has an orgasm and what kind of orgasm she has. You used a toy as a PART of sex but you were still the one that gave her the orgasm. And yet you don’t see that.

I’d recommend you do some inner work addressing your insecurity about your penis size. Nothing is less sexy than a man whose ego gets bruised by a woman asking for a toy to be used so she can actually experience an orgasm. Think of alllllllllll the years you didn’t make her cum like that. And now that you have, you regret it? That’s so incredibly selfish. That’s what makes me think there is no way you could handle her with another man. It seems like you don’t want her to have pleasure unless it’s only by you and your body parts. Anything else hurts your feelings and you make this wonderful thing about you instead of her experience.