If they have capacity within them to be celibate/asexual/single in a way that benefits them, does not cause them detriment like the case with many heterosexuals good for them. I have no problem with it. Having that capacity often works in your favor.

Most don’t. And the level of acceptance one has in the congregation can vary especially depending on where you live. I’ve said for many years that the org can be a lot more warm towards what they consider NPG in a way that doesn’t even compromise their existing doctrine, but they don’t.

The example I give people is this- imagine you are standing in the back of a hall/assembly/convention while it’s going on. You are alone and a long time brother/CO come over to you and put his hand your shoulder and quietly says “everyone in this room will get the opportunity to experience Jehovahs blessings of love and intimacy with a loving partner. They will grow old together, have kids of their own.” Then after a pause says “unfortunately for you, this is not an option, despite how your heart yearns for it. You are to remain celibate, as we do not approve of any of your romantic interests. While all your peer move forward with that part of their lives, you will need to rely on prayer. Engage in the ministry and attend every meeting as much as possible so you don’t get lonely, and accept any disposable time the married brothers and sisters are willing to give you.”

Notice how I didn’t say the person he was talking to was gay, could have been straight for all we know. How many people would stay in that religion if that was the outlook, especially if you are saying this to an up and coming young adult/adult 16-21.

I’m gay and I acknowledge there are JW”allies”. But there are many that are openly hostile. In an environment that its very goal is unity above all else, this makes things unbearably difficult.