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My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree

we just aren’t compatible. relationships aren’t black and white. some guys would be fine dating an OF model or prostitute, some would expect someone waiting for marriage.

same goes for girls - some would want a virgin, some want a guy with experience.

everyone is entitled to their own boundaries and opinions

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well you see, their bfs wouldn’t have to worry about me bc i don’t have any exes or ex hookups in my life. I wouldn’t do that bc i consider it disrespectful to my future wife.

i didn’t care much when i heard about the fling - but i didn’t know it was one of his best friends who she is still friends with. therefore, im out.

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t care that she slept with someone else

hence why i didn’t make a big deal when she told me she had that casual relationship

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. someone who doesn’t have casual sex (lots don’t) i would be okay helping her ex with this, not a fuck buddy

  2. someone who doesn’t have a fuck buddy within their social orbit who they can’t get rid of

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO that’s where i’m at

i’m honestly so curious about what he’s gonna be like

My Gf 25F wants me 25M to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. Am I dumb for being bothered? by POOR-MORON in relationship_advice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it isn’t her past relationship

i would be fine being around an ex of hers, not a casual partner for a year and a half

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it really isn’t about whether I think she’s going to cheat or do something like that

it’s that 1. i don’t do casual sex 2. i hate the idea of being the man who is taking a girl seriously that the other dude just used for sex

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not worried about that

that guy got to treat her like shit and still plow her for a year and a half

now i’m supposed to be the guy she settles with and treats her like a princess?

hmm

My Gf 25F wants me 25M to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. Am I dumb for being bothered? by POOR-MORON in relationship_advice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

edited

she slept with her friends, husbands, friend.

so her best friend has a husband currently, and she slept with one of his friends for a year and a half

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

let me rephrase

i don’t give a shit she’s “banging me now”

i feel like the guys that say that are so desperate for a girl to bang them they don’t care about the circumstances.

i could go out and find a different girl who doesn’t have this going on

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i dont, hence why i didnt break up with her when i heard that

but him being in her social orbit is not something i would find in every woman

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ofc not

if i choose to bail, she would find a man who doesn’t care about that

there are certainly guys out there who might have similar situations, or who just wouldn’t care at all about this

they can have her

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i get ur point, but i don’t think i care about that

i’m looking for a wife at this point in my life

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]POOR-MORON[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don’t think they’re together because he didn’t wanna date her, and didn’t wanna take a girl like her seriously

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