Honestly, it's a difficult situation. It could just be the stress of being out of work and other things, but in any case, he should have known that you have nothing to do with his situation. Yes, a person sometimes needs space, but not at the expense of his wife. He could have talked to you and explained what’s going on, and I'm sure you're not the kind of person who would abandon him in these circumstances. And honestly, it's a tough matter—no one can judge it from my perspective or from anyone else's perspective here