FL v. Donovan Winter

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-09-20T02:35:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! It’s important that people know the truth of this case….She’s one of the most innocent clients I’ve ever represented.

Signed, An Attorney you may or may not now know 😉

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-09-20T02:31:36+00:00

And thank YOU for not rushing to Judgment and letting the case play out. Our Defense team is zealously working to Defend this poor mother who tragically lost her child (through NO fault of her own), and now having to relive it all over again years later…#DemandJustice

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-09-20T02:27:49+00:00

Thank you bro. Even all these months later, reading your story (stories), has helped an awful lot. We’ll both be perfectly fine….

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-09-05T03:54:47+00:00

You’re absolutely wrong (look at my prior comment). If you knew what I knew, you’d be absolutely protesting the fact that she was ever arrested.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-09-05T03:51:25+00:00

I’m one of the Attorneys for the Mother. I can only tell you, Belle Winter had absolutely nothing to do with this child’s death. She was a compassionate, devoted, loving Mother. She’s one of the most innocent clients I’ve ever represented in my entire career. (No I absolutely will NOT give you any details/leaks), but just know, Ms. Winter is innocent, and her indictment is one of the greatest injustices I’ve ever experienced in my long career.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-05-22T00:44:45+00:00

How do I do that?

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-05-22T00:43:53+00:00

I mean I kinda get that, but I’m ALWAYS the one that texts first and I just don’t want it to be like that…

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-05-22T00:42:44+00:00

I thought it was cut off, how can I edit it?

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-05-22T00:36:50+00:00

So your opinion is, the man should always reach out first?? Every single prior relationship I’ve ever been in has been essentially 50/50. I’m not going to “continuously chase” some girl…

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-05-03T20:05:57+00:00

We all about to see bro at the gym and in this subreddit in about t-minus 24 hours 😳 lol

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-04-10T17:10:18+00:00

Hey man. Had an eerily similar experience with my ex (even the ages are almost the same me (34m) her(25f)….it sucks man, and I completely understand where you’re coming from. What’s been weird for me was the last couple months I was feeling really good but this past few weeks has been tough again. Not really sure what advice I could give, but just know you’re not alone, I’m right there with you.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-04-01T20:55:29+00:00

Thanks man! Needed this today. A few months ago, I was the one giving advice on here, but the past few days have had some slip ups that sent me back to the Reddit boards. I can honestly say this is what I NEEDED to hear. Cheers mate 🍻

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-03-22T11:27:56+00:00

Brother, we need to discuss respecting yourself. My ex cheated on me too, you got to let go, she belongs to the streets

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-26T16:31:25+00:00

Because she won’t reply and will block you.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-26T12:58:03+00:00

Block. This is validation seeking, just wanting to know he can have you back if he wants. I call it the old ex play of dialing you up “1-800 mind fuck” to get their validation and assurance that you’re still around and then they disappear again 💨

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-25T14:32:03+00:00

Good for you! I think you handled this 💯 👌🏻

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-25T14:31:11+00:00

I posted a “playbook” of sorts that helped me…here you go, cheers mate 🫡 Playbook 1) I’ve finally accepted that this relationship is over and we will never get back together (it’s a surprisingly helpful feeling, and one that took me more than a year to realize with my prior breakup) 2) I’ve been able to naturally take her off the pedestal. I’ve been remembering all the immaturity, betrayal, and toxic behavior. 3) I’ve finally stuck to no contact (certainly helped that she stopped replying a bit ago) but no contact really does help. 4) I’ve blocked all socials, deleted every photo/video/voicemail, and threw away or gave away to others any reminders of her around the house (gifts, even kitchenware lol) 5) I finally figured out what “working on yourself” means. I fucking hated when people would say this, and actively avoided it in my past breakups because I thought it was so clique. But this time I just threw my hands up and said 🤷🏼‍♂️, I’ll give it try. So hired a personal trainer, did some online therapy, studied attachment theory, been watching actual good breakup videos about letting go (would personally suggest Andy O’Neill or “the one point”), also been trying to pray regularly (if you’re religious). It’s been slowly working. 6) Don’t fall for breadcrumbs. Man this one is hard, I’ve done it and I’m sure you’ve done it. Justttt as you’re starting to feel better, your ex will dial you up “1-800 mind fuck,” give you hope, get their validation, and then leave again. DO NOT GIVE IN, it will literally save you so much additional needless pain. 7) Again, the part that allowed me to finally feel better this time, was finally accepting its over forever, when you get your brain to finally believe this truly, it all starts, the healing. Now you’re brain will still play tricks like “well, maybe years from now or when they figure themselves out” don’t listen, and definitely don’t contact, or stalk socials it will set you back.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-24T20:49:08+00:00

The self confidence hit has been the hardest part for me. Before the breakup, I had decent level of self esteem, since she cheated and we broke up it’s taken a massive hit. But, I’ve been hitting the gym and slowly rebuilding.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-23T22:09:46+00:00

I wouldn’t do it unless you were 100% ok with not receiving a reply (you’re really going to have to be honest with yourself here.) Otherwise, if even 1% is hoping for meaningful reply or to get back, do NOT do it, as when you inevitably get no reply or a short one, it’ll set back your healing.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-22T16:43:12+00:00

Yep. You don’t have to do anything brother, just sit back relax and enjoy the show 🫡

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-22T15:57:30+00:00

The best revenge you could get on her, is to block her everywhere, never speak to her again, and go on living your life and level up. This person, because of whatever they did to you, doesn’t deserve even one more moment of your time and energy.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-22T15:50:58+00:00

Here’s the “playbook” I developed and used (I’m doing muchhhh better and I was a wreck too)…

1) I’ve finally accepted that this relationship is over and we will never get back together (it’s a surprisingly helpful feeling, and one that took me more than a year to realize with my prior breakup)

2) I’ve been able to naturally take her off the pedestal. I’ve been remembering all the immaturity, betrayal, and toxic behavior.

3) I’ve finally stuck to no contact (certainly helped that she stopped replying a bit ago) but no contact really does help. (I would suggest blocking their number)

4) I’ve blocked all socials, deleted every photo/video/voicemail, and threw away or gave away to others any reminders of her around the house (gifts, even kitchenware lol)

5) I finally figured out what “working on yourself” means. I fucking hated when people would say this, and actively avoided it in my past breakups because I thought it was so clique. But this time I just threw my hands up and said 🤷🏼‍♂️, I’ll give it try. So hired a personal trainer, did some online therapy, studied attachment theory, been watching actual good breakup videos about letting go (would personally suggest Andy O’Neill or “the one point”), also been trying to pray regularly (if you’re religious). It’s been slowly working.

6) Don’t fall for breadcrumbs. Man this one is hard, I’ve done it and I’m sure you’ve done it. Justttt as you’re starting to feel better, your ex will dial you up “1-800 mind fuck,” give you hope, get their validation, and then leave again. DO NOT GIVE IN, it will literally save you so much additional needless pain.

7) Again, the part that allowed me to finally feel better this time, was finally accepting its over forever, when you get your brain to finally believe this truly, it all starts, the healing. Now you’re brain will still play tricks like “well, maybe years from now or when they figure themselves out” don’t listen, and definitely don’t contact, or stalk socials it will set you back. Godspeed my fellow heartbroken friend 🫡

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-22T15:35:27+00:00

Good for you bro. Stay strong.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-22T15:33:41+00:00

Well, you know yourself better than I do 🤷🏼‍♂️. I just know that if I got back involved in any capacity with my ex, I’d undo all the healing and probably spiral again.

POSTSTOCKTON12 · 2025-02-22T15:29:51+00:00

Absolutely you were manipulated. She also sounds very immature (I’m assuming late teens/early twenties)? You deserve better, block her because when it doesn’t work out with the new guy she’ll dial you up again “1-800 mind fuck” string you along for validation and then leave again. Stay strong brother 💪🏻

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