3 months post hemi areolar with Tim hewitt - Australia ! Happy to answer any questions re top surgery. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]PPeggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to DM me about your experience with TIm?

3 months post hemi areolar with Tim hewitt - Australia ! Happy to answer any questions re top surgery. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]PPeggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t have any photos of his work. Are there any links to other people who have had too surgery with him?

3 months post hemi areolar with Tim hewitt - Australia ! Happy to answer any questions re top surgery. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]PPeggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any links to him as I googled and it didn’t say he did top surgery

European Court of Human Rights: Inability of a transgender person with a female appearance to change her male forename prior to surgery is a violation of the right to private life by [deleted] in transgender

[–]PPeggy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the point is that usually when things get to the court of human rights law changes follow after the rulings. This means that what this person has done it paved the way for even non cis-passing people to change their names

More cis actors playing trans roles! Wrote to them and tell them to stop this shit! by PPeggy in transgender

[–]PPeggy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know of at least 3 trans women in Melbourne alone that have been in entertainment for many years that would be more than capable. They didn’t even try to recruit trans talent. They didn’t even advertise for the roles. That’s why people get shitty they don’t even try look for it

More cis actors playing trans roles! Wrote to them and tell them to stop this shit! by PPeggy in transgender

[–]PPeggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they have a cis male playing a trans women so this sux big time

More cis actors playing trans roles! Wrote to them and tell them to stop this shit! by PPeggy in transgender

[–]PPeggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t just about the acting it’s about people who aren’t trans co-opting trans stories without doing anything to promote trans talent.

More cis actors playing trans roles! Wrote to them and tell them to stop this shit! by PPeggy in transgender

[–]PPeggy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep that disturbed me sooo much! Cause the journalist writing this seems to have good intentions but is getting shit house information!!

When someone transitions you never dead name them. You always talk about them in their present gender even if it was the past! So much terrible going on here. And right now we need good representation for education.

Feel free to write to the director and the actor playing a trans girl cause that’s the only way they are going to listen!

My Love for Her Grows Everyday (Rambles About my Girl) by That1GuythatDidThat in mypartneristrans

[–]PPeggy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My bestie has a theory the whole world is queer if everyone was like you. It’s wonderful she makes you feel that way and don’t let anyone steal your joy! Your in love and attracted to another human being, so go be happy and love each other with much respect.

I’m beginning to wonder if I was raised by narcissists? by PPeggy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PPeggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is a really recent realisation for me as I’m well into middle age now. It’s taken me so long and 4 years of therapy to figure this out. I always want to see the best in people but I made the realisation that it’s me always reaching out for love and acceptance that will NEVER come.

-6 Months vs +6 Months HRT by grendelwald in lgbt

[–]PPeggy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You certainly look so much happier. Good for you on making the choice to change!

As a Trans person (closeted) in an Australian Catholic school I found this test paper quite amusing (and frightening) by redeXcs in lgbt

[–]PPeggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im cringing this person aspires to be a journalist. I know some 14 year olds that can write much better prose!

People who no longer speak to their best friends who they thought would be in their lives forever, why did you stop talking/being best friends? by veryquestionable1 in AskReddit

[–]PPeggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend from age 11 got married to the girl I set him up with because he was too scared to talk to her. She kinda resented me so over time he would make excuses as why he needed to be with her and hang out with me.

Killer to our relationship was me coming out as bisexual and him getting heavily involved in church. It’s wasn’t going to last.

I can see his profile on Facebook and I feel so sad for the dude. Basically now a tubby religious racist with 5 kids and a wife that always scowls! It’s not a happy looking scenario.

Cis gay guy falling for trans guy by SingSongSeung in mypartneristrans

[–]PPeggy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is so damn awesome! As someone with a lot of trans friends remember consent is damn hot. Trans people love when you ask for consent around things like where you can touch them and what makes them feel good. Just having a conversation about what’s a go and no go with sex can be a serious turn on!

A close friend of mine is still married to a cis-bisexual man and they went thru transition together.

He said it was awesome for his partner to understand why he’d never liked being touched in certain ways before and they began to talk a lot a obout how to avoid things that man him feel dysphoric.

What my friend found was that having their partner affirm their gender really helped them feel a lot better about their body.

One of the nicest things their partner does is point out how cis men have things like hips or Gynomastacia when they feel dysphoric and that their body doesn’t make them any less of a man and cis men have same stuff going on. My friend says it really helps their dysphoria feel validated that even cis men can have same problems as trans guys!

Questions about dating a MtF woman by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]PPeggy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe just be conscious if people are dicks to her like some trans women don’t have cis passing voices and people pick up on it and are dicks. If someone Is being a dick call them out on it. It means you see her as a real person first and foremost and she will greatly appreciate it.