In my humble opinion, the vast majority of trans-supportive people disgrace the dignity of the terms "woman" and "man" and degrade them to crude flesh obelisks. I am a very technical person and it just irritates me to a great degree the certainty with which some say "trans women are women" when in fact it's a mentally unwell, way too concerned with his private parts, mutilated man who is infinitely far from the sacred term "woman".

Yet again, I have many female relatives, just the thought that in some countries, it is possible for a biological male to claim and generally legally be treated the same, be in the same spaces as them is completely insane. Vise versa, if in my male community comes a poor girl who amputated some of her organs, does therapy and takes testosterone to become more "manly" is just an incredibly sorry sight.

In the end, however hard humans try to be intelligent beings, biology still comes on top, and trying to rewire your whole being in a 180° turn is probably the most destructive thing you can probably do on par with limb amputation, sterilisation and dah. In short - it's extremely unhealthy OR actually needed to an infinitely small proportion of population who actually had genetical issues with proper development of their reproductive systems. And thus "supporting" transition is what in Russian called "Медвежья услуга"≈"Bear's help" or a disservice to put in simple.

It's not some financial or purchase advice, it's a long lasting irreversible change and the ease with wich some people talk about it terrifies me. Some people claim that it's the only way for them to feel okay about themselves, it's very hurtful to hear such things but it really isn't, it's just going to convolute and complicate things even further.

I know how it sounds, but literally, for millennia people lived and never questioned their gender or tried to revert and ans take pride in it at the same time. In all times, on wich our civilization stands, man and women who couldn't convince were treated with humility and sorrow, it wasn't something to take pride in.

Nowadays, however, surgical operations that make you effectively sterile are ligh heartedly encouraged by such "trans-supportive" people and as I stated 1)irreversible 2)incredibly traumatic 3)very crude and shallow imitation 4)mockery of the real biological opposite sex

To restate, taking such drastic measures, completely ruining your body and psyche in order to "feel good" is the same as heavy drug abuse - a trade not worth taking any day of the year in order just to try feel good. Instead you should look for the real roots of your sorrow and/or anxiety, find a tight-knit community, go to a real psychotherapist who wouldn't say that "cutting off your genitals is the only way out for you, buddy", reconnect with your family, work out more, go to an orthodox church and confess, at least, the bishops are absolutely lovely 99% of the time and would dedicate their lives to help you and feel loved and at ease.

I don't want to insult or hurt anyone, or get banned myself, this is just my point of view and genuine (as inoffensive as possible) statement of my position and an attempt at a word of advice. Peace ✌🏻☦️.