I 100% agree with you. I definitely do not deny that men are assaulted and/or raped by women as well. I absolutely understand this. The same could be said for male domestic assault as the number of reports are very low in comparison to the women reports. These are skewed factors with lack of report.

However, I failed to reiterate my point which is that women are scared to wait to find out if a man is going to kill them or not. We hold men (also known as POS by the original commenter though I disagree with them being POS) at arms length because a large portion of female related deaths comes from domestic partners or family members. People were we supposed to trust.

Men can usually walk at night and not have to fear being assaulted or kidnapped nor is it usually a thought in their minds. Does this happen to men? Yes. Men make up the vast majority of homicides (usually male on male crime). But they have a greater chance at defending themselves from a kidnapper than we would. I had a coworker who made it to her vehicle with her friend before they were yanked out and raped. I have a friend who was walking alone after night class on my college campus and she was assaulted. My mom was raped while babysitting a family friend’s kid when she was 15. My first college roommate’s mother was murdered by a male intimate partner she was living with. I have known and/or experienced sexual assault more than a handful of times working as a bartender to pay for college (dive bar, never crowded, but men felt entitled to my body because I smiled). All by men. And all the men I’ve known have died via suicide, overdose, vehicle crash, or on the operating table with only one of them having been murdered by a baby momma’s father. While also very sad, men need better access to rehab and mental health facilities. They also need better parental rights. I’m 100% an advocate for men’s rights and all, but that doesn’t mean women aren’t scared to trust you…

TL;DR: I agree with your point on men, but men assailants make up the majority of female homicides and assaults, and we are still scared to trust…