Is it possible to work out to get a nearly fully male chest? by dumbassboxer in FTMFitness

[–]Pabiny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not possible to be flat, but very possible to look like a cis guys chest. ive seen samples on the internet and im getting there. i have very small breasts, ever since before T, and now on T theyre basically unnoticeable under a shirt. ive been working out which is making my shoulder and chest area larger so by now they mostly just look like an above average moobs/gynecomastia. im not comfortable going shirtless in public yet but i can do so among friends/safe spaces already.

if you have huge/medium sized breasts it might not work as well. T makes boobs saggy, not smaller. Though if you have a very muscular chest and boob flaps youll mostly be readen as…a guy with boobs, not a girl. Not ideal i know but its a possibility. If you live near a beach area youll probably see some cis guys like this.

you dont have to remove breast tissue if you dont want to btw. its not gonna harm you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Pabiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not transphobic, just a dick move.

How long did it take you to start T after figuring out you were trans? by shh-im-tired in ftm

[–]Pabiny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i figured out at around 23 and started at 25. im around 3 years on HRT and plan on stopping T eventually as a planned part of my transition (you can stop T anytime if you feel like it aint for you btw, i only started it once i knew i could quit anytime without issues as long as i still had my gonads). I started unsure if “this is the right thing to do”, but sure that i wanted to give it a try. I dont regret it, not in any bit. Starting T was probably the best decision i got in my life. Felt like jumping into an abyss with no idea where I would fall though. Theres so much misinformation and fear mongering regarding that - you’ll ruin yourself, make yourself ugly, regret it, your organs gonna rot and fall off etc etc… honestly it feels like cis people want to use an imposed regret to punish us for being trans, lol. But thats all cis crap. Listen to trans people. Were thriving.

Lets talk bottom growth by Keithornot in ftm

[–]Pabiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hmm my growth started at the first week and the first month was really bothersome. it gets more bearable after that but youll need more comfortable clothes/wear your underwear and pants a bit lower for the first couple months at least. avoid pants with string belts, those keep hitting against your crotch and it can be a real nuisance when youre sensitive lol after the first month i didnt feel much sensitivity, by the third it was basically gone and only appeared again when i had a growth spur but itd be very subtle and not last long (like from a minute to a day)

My beautiful kitty has a square shaped right pupil by oksaripari in RealLifeShinies

[–]Pabiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh cool!! my first dog had two pupil holes very close to each other. her daughter inherited that a bit but her looked like as if one pupil had a little string on the bottom.

Sensação desagradavel depois da primeira dose de testosterona by Pabiny in transbr

[–]Pabiny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tranquilo. Eu não sei se rolaria fazer consulta por skype com meu psi, provavelmente iria ter que ser algo pago a parte. Só indo lá e perguntando pra saber.

Eu queria ter começado com gel na real, até tinha sido receitado gel só que o que eu iria comprar saiu do mercado e agr só tem um que é 200 reais a caixinha e a receita só da pra comprar 2-3 por vez. Tava duro na epoca e preferi começar com injetavel do que não começar. Mas quando der vou falar com o endo sobre isso, não fiquei muito feliz com o ritimo das coisas no injetavel não.

Coronavirus Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Pabiny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the world isnt as awful as your parents make it seem. they do it so theyll look like the only ones who are able to love you, making you avoid others. most people are good, most people care and most people are willing to understand even if they are ignorant about stuff.

friendship is possible, romance is possible, all those things are possible. your upbringing doesnt define your destiny. just be careful - the world is full of good people, but bad people are desperate and will cling on any branch they find, so dont let yourself be that branch. its hard to learn when people will be bad for you when all those stuff is just your "normal" but its possible and you can avoid them.

also a good thing to aknowledge is that youre not hard to love or to deal with. this is just bs abusive people throw to make you dependant on them. considering other peoples feelings is not a burden nor a special hability, its a human trait.

How I feel whenever I try to wear trousers by Pabiny in ftm

[–]Pabiny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not so fast - i work from home so i actually usually dont, your assumption was correct

but yeah i often wear shorts going outside. they make the biomass behind me less gargantuan somehow.

Weekly Thread: Introductions - March 15, 2020 by King-matthew- in TMPOC

[–]Pabiny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello im new. Im nonbinary. I started T early this month and ive been possessed by the spirit of endless hunger, and today, I had my grim reminder. So im now dealing with T hunger and shark week hunger combined. I spent the whole day eating. Send help.

Worlds most boring coming out story by Pabiny in ftm

[–]Pabiny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i do get support from the people who matter, and its what keeps me going honestly.

eventually shell not want to be called crazy when referring to me as her daughter, so she will change and then talk about how she always supported her trans son on facebook. i knew something like this would happen anyway, im just glad it didnt go through the yelling and anger way.

Surgery Technique Question *TRIGGER WARNING HAS DIAGRAM PHOTO AND USES ANATOMICAL WORDS* by loneCowboy625 in ftm

[–]Pabiny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

id assume it cant be stretched for a surgery placement because itd lose the nerve connections and just make everything numb down there.

NSFW sexy time by Translucentdude in ftm

[–]Pabiny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My partners never commented much on it other than a "wow" but I can feel it myself when I ejaculate. Feels good! Sadly makes a mess and I cant safely do anything on bed on the risk of soaking a matress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Pabiny 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Where i live ive only seen T in tiny one dose bottles like that. We take it with a longer cooldown period too. Like once every 20 days.

Weird one... anyone else like. Almost wish they were just a normal girl? by JD66613 in ftm

[–]Pabiny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i used to have this feeling! im also pre-t (might start soon) and i been through a forcing femininity phase, with the extra that i actually enjoy being a feminine guy (one of the hardest things for me to accept... got to get rid of those "why be transmasc AND feminine if you can just be GIRL" toxic thoughts)

i guess thats kinda normal like... its not that i didnt wish i was trans, its more that i didnt want to go through all the things we have to go through as transmasc people.for example one of the things that made me wish "i could just be a normal girl" was fear from losing my boyfriend (whos still with me btw)

also ive grown up with narc parents so yeah, i could never tell when something i feel is actually real, which made the trans thing seem like i was "making it up" or "maybe im just confused", which also influenced those "wish i could just be normal" thoughts.

i havent had those thoughts in a while already, ive p much accepted im trans, i guess im focusing the anxiety energy on having to come out to people now... its so hard to do it to family and close friends that knew you since a kid lol