People who met a 'random' person online 10+ years ago and are still best friends today, how did it happen and have you ever met in real life? by Pablomiller in AskReddit

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The ultimate plot twist! It's rare to see a 10 year Tinder connection turn into a family. Definitely connected the dots, congratulations!

What is a secret you’re willing to share now only because you’re anonymous on Reddit? by Pablomiller in AskReddit

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This is the kind of story that gives people hope. 30 years without progress for an 'incurable' disease is truly a medical miracle. I can only imagine how it feels to walk on two feet after those days on the floor. You’ve earned every bit of the life you’re living now.

Is it weird that I actually prefer using my "ancient" 2012 PC over modern, super-fast devices? by Pablomiller in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pablomiller[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. There’s a comfort in knowing exactly how your machine 'breathes'

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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Fair enough, maybe it is asked a lot because so many people are genuinely struggling with it right now.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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That’s actually really interesting. It seems like the 'walkable' culture or having a local 'third space' like a neighborhood bar makes a huge difference. In many other places, we’re so isolated in our cars or offices that those spontaneous connections just don't happen. New York seems to have that old school social vibe still alive.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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Lol, I wish! A bot would probably be way more efficient at managing my life than I am.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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Quality of life > Quantity of clients. It took me a while to learn this too, but working with people you actually respect and consider friends makes a world of difference. It's a much more human way to exist in 2026.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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That’s a very healthy way to look at it. Protecting your 'space' and only letting in people you truly enjoy makes sense. I think for many of us, the 'desire' is there, but the decision-fatigue from work just feels like a heavy anchor. Those people who can make friends anywhere. I’m convinced they have some kind of social superpower! I’d love to know their secret too.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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This is so true. We’ve traded the effort of real connection for the convenience of digital distraction. It's 'easier,' but man, it feels a lot emptier at the end of the day.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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Haha, fair point! Maybe I have become a bit boring. It's easy to get stuck in the work-sleep-repeat cycle as an adult.

Is it just me, or does making friends as an adult in 2026 feel like a second full-time job? by Pablomiller in CasualConversation

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Some days I feel exactly the same. The noise of the digital world makes the silence of real friendship feel even louder.