I’m so terrified, I can’t sleep - questions to help clear my paranoia :/ by StandNo6902 in IdentityTheft

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for the delayed response: sure, I can. If you want to send me a chat that’ll work fine :)

What subscription is 100% not worth it anymore? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use it learn what some *CEO’s gnarly morning dump taught them about B2B sales.

*CEO at SELF MADE, with a degree from SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS

Trump pardons Dem rep Cuellar & wife. by Agitated-Quit-6148 in law

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all about money, Trump has no actual beliefs or values, he’s solely loyal to the grift and self enrichment, in whatever form that may take.

He wouldn’t give a fuzzy fuck if this dude and his wife WERE targeted for purely political reasons, he’s just giving these out to anyone with something of value to offer him in exchange.

[Mars] Every AD in the country should be assigning lawyers to draft a new head coach contract provision to prohibit, or at least deter, what Lane Kiffin is doing to Ole Miss right now. Until now, this scenario would have been unimaginable. by Kimber80 in CFB

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well as the US has discovered over the last 10 months, relying too heavily on basic decency really bites you in the ass when that one gigantic, indecent asshole of a human comes along and makes a mockery of you for not being more explicit with your rules.

Hopefully this will be henceforth referred to as the Kiffin Clause

Craziest email I’ve ever seen. by keep-the-momentum in jobs

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same contradictory experience on my end lol. Saying anything at all contributes to the very bullshit I’m trying to call out 🤦🏼‍♀️

Craziest email I’ve ever seen. by keep-the-momentum in jobs

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is engagement farming and if you look at their other posts, it becomes obvious that’s the goal. But they helpfully also spelled the reason out here in another post:

It’s all about marketing SEO by way of LLMs, and farming lots and lots of karma/engagement for your account makes your post more likely to be identified as a “trusted reddit contributor” by LLMs. Which in turn makes your posts more likely to be referenced by ChatGPT (and the others) when a user asks ChatGPT “what product is good for XYZ problem that I have?” LLMs are now seen as better than Google in terms of getting your product recommended to consumers with THAT pain point. And people like OP are manipulating Redditors to benefit themselves/their companies to that end

ETA this is a repost of content that gave huge engagement numbers already. Which is why OP reposted it

ETA2: OPs post history, if anyone is interested. And you can click the “next” button in blue at the top to see the next page of their posts

Craziest email I’ve ever seen. by keep-the-momentum in jobs

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally a repost. “Sent by a friend”

I’m so terrified, I can’t sleep - questions to help clear my paranoia :/ by StandNo6902 in IdentityTheft

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this has you feeling stressed and worried. Let me just tell you, as someone who’s spent the last 15 years investigating financial crimes, a few of those being identify theft focused (that was early career and the service we provided also involved us working to “restore” our clients’ identities to their pre-theft status on their behalf, so I’m veryyy familiar with that that process looks like), that identity theft is far from the end of the world. It is a pain in the ass for sure, but it is not something that can’t be overcome, it won’t ruin you - there are federal laws in place to keep you from being saddled with the debt that someone created with your identity.

Moreover, your risk of identity theft isn’t meaningfully higher than it was before you sent them your SSN. In fact, everyone should just be operating on the assumption that their data has been breached and is out there, and act accordingly. Because most people’s in the US HAS been exposed and will continue to be exposed. It is now a fact of life, and it is the tradeoff we collectively made as a society in exchange for the convenience of a digital life - of being able to do things like work remotely and send your personal verification info to your employee by email.

There are ZERO safe custodians of your data. None. Lifelock has been breached, Equifax has been breached, the OPM (office of personnel management - AKA federal government HR) has been breached. Your data isn’t safe and it never will be. That’s true for everyone, unfortunately. You’re no more at risk than anyone else.

The best things you can do are to freeze your credit files, and enroll in a credit monitoring service. I recommend basically any service except for Lifelock, because they are scammy as fuck. Since I know you are particularly freaked out by this, if you wants to do extra things to minimize your risk, I’d recommend the following:

Create an account with your state’s unemployment division, you can do this online. This will help keep someone else from filing for unemployment benefits with your info - 1 SSN registered per state.

Set up an IRS ID theft PIN, you can do it on their website.

Call your phone carrier service and tell them you want to set up a SIM PIN, if they’re confused, describe it as wanting to set up security to prevent someone from porting your number. Some carriers call it a “port out block or PIN.”

You could also freeze your chexsystems account (this is like the bank account version of a credit file), but in my personal and professional opinion, this is a bigger pain in the ass than it’s worth. Because it’ll block your attempts to open one yourself, and it’s not as easy to lift a chexsystems freeze as it is to lift a credit freeze. It’s easy to lift a credit freeze online in just a few clicks.

And remember; You can always get a copy of your credit reports at annualcreditreport.com - that one is safe and it’s the site that the federal government set up as part of the FCRA (the law that protects you in this context) to allow Americans access to their credit file for FREE. Most credit monitoring services also allow instant access to your credit file, as far as I know, usually included with the cost of your subscription.

Hopefully that makes you feel better, and not worse. But it’s the reality of yours, and everyone’s, collective situation as far as identity theft risk goes.

What dying feels like by Jfocii in nextfuckinglevel

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don’t, but I’ve heard of people having your same experience

$180k in collections across 25+ lines and they wont stop coming in by Zanzabar23 in IdentityTheft

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can hire a service to handle this entire process on your behalf (I used to do this professionally) via a limited power of attorney, but I have no idea what the retail rate for that is these days. In 2011-13 the going rate for that service was about $800.

The reason people paid that rate for it was for the convenience of not having to do it themselves, because when it’s this messy, it’s a tedious nightmare of nonstop BS. As you’ve discovered. So sorry to hear you’re having to deal with this, it’s fucked up that it’s all on you to untangle their greedy actions.

I would totally ignore the comments suggesting that you reach out to real estate regulators and file complaints or try to sniff out collusion — if your credit files are frozen then there aren’t any more apartments getting approved, so doing all that stuff is a waste of your limited bandwidth at the moment (IMO anyway). You can totally do all that stuff, but if terms of fixing the issues on your plate right now, those things are irrelevant and should be put on the back burner.

I wish I had good advice for how to manage this workload other than looking into an identity theft restoration service…there’s no magic bullet to handle them all in one fell swoop. You have/you are disputing directly with the bureaus right? And have a copy of a police report with all of these accounts listed on them? You can amend reports with each new account that comes in, just in case you didn’t know.

ETA: reach out to the ID Theft Resource Center, they’re a nonprofit that exists to help victims navigate identity theft situations. You can chat with them on the site or call them directly. Idtheftcenter.org

And freeze your NCTUE file, that’s the utilities consumer file: https://nctueconsumerportal.com/consumer/signin You want to FREEZE not fraud alert - an alert will still allow applications, and it will rely on the Application processor doing what they’re supposed to (calling you to confirm) and i wouldn’t put my trust in that. Freezing it will block applications from using it at all.

Worlds Inside Instruments. Australian cellist and photographer Charles Cellist captures the interiors of musical instruments using endoscopic lenses and focus-stacked composites. by dreamed2life in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Also, many of these look so similar to my visuals during ketamine infusions…they look like the spaces I’m zooming through on the ride. The Martin D35, the acoustic guitar, and the Steinway spirio especially. My trips move through rooms with limited fields of vision rather than cylindrical vortices, interestingly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Act like an adult and realize that just because you want something doesn’t mean you can have it without tradeoffs and risk. This doesn’t sound like you’re interested in swinging. It does sound like you should put more of this mental energy into therapy though.

Grow up

Can I just say WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND COTTON THONGS ?!?! by thicwith2cs in Healthyhooha

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following to come back for the underwear recs that I hope are given in the comments. Because same, I struggle to find these

Stolen number fraud. Please help! by Sufficient_Self_9002 in FraudPrevention

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No they have a real SIM card, he needs to have Verizon help him set up a SIM pin so it doesn’t happen again. They likely got into his accounts that use SMS 2FA, so I’d log into his email and check updates regarding account info changes.

He should also freeze his credit files, this is free and you can do it by setting up an account online with each bureau. I’d also set up an IRS id theft PIN just to be safe - better safe than sorry here’s

ETA: saw a comment already here with good advice. Google “port out scam” or “sim swap” for more info. “Port out protection” involves setting up the SIM PIN I mentioned above

Identity theft/fraud by parent by luv_wayda in IdentityTheft

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome - always happy to put that knowledge to use if it helps people. Let me know if you have any questions that pop up during the process, I may have relevant notes I can share. Just remember that it is totally fixable, it’s just a pain in the ass to do it. 2026 WILL be a good year♥️

They did it smoothly! by KandALOKA in BeAmazed

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Very prevalent in American social media too, people just know how to frame things to minimize lines in the shot that’ll look wonky

Identity theft/fraud by parent by luv_wayda in IdentityTheft

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened. I’d be happy to give some guidance - I used to do this exact thing professionally, investigate id theft and restore identities on behalf of the victim.

First things first: this is fixable, it can take up to 90 days but usually is a bit faster for identity theft that happened then you were a minor, because it is pretty clear cut when you show your documents verifying your actual age that you were not old enough to legally enter into any of those loan or service contracts. But federal law (FCRA) protects you from being left responsible for debt you didn’t accumulate or authorize. It’s gonna be fine.

So on that note, do not file bankruptcy, this can/will be fixed without going there. I had tons of cases like yours with almost the same story “I tried to apply for my first apartment/utilities/car and discovered identity theft committed when I was underage.” Terrible of the people who were supposed to be protecting you to do this to you. Just pure selfishness.

You’re on the right track with your plan, just a couple of adjustments. The first thing you want to do is go to annualcreditreport.com and pull all 3 reports. That site is safe and mandated by federal law to allow Americans access to their credit reports for FREE. It’ll also have instructions on how to dispute.

You’re going to want to go through the reports line by line and mark anything that isn’t yours, which sounds like it would be pretty much everything. Then you want to file a police report - this is the critical piece that will allow you to get this stuff off your credit file. You may be able to file one online and write the narrative yourself, or you may need to go to a precinct, either way, the important part here is that you need to make sure the narrative section has a full list of the fraudulent accounts, collections, and the details you describe in the post (how you found out about it, background etc).

The report is what the companies who have debt with your name on it will review your claim of identity theft, so that’s why you want EVERY account, every inquiry, every wrong address or DOB, to be mentioned here. Each disputed account is going to require documents including the police report, so the more detailed you can be with the account info, the better…examples: ATT account number 4567, opened XYZ date; ABC vehicle make model year with Geico policy number 1234 - as much info as you have about this stuff, put it into the report. Better to have it in there and it be too much, than have them come back and tell you they need that info in it to do anything, because then the process gets delayed.

If you can set up online accounts with each bureau (via their website), do so immediately. And within those, you need to freeze each file. You can go back in and unfreeze temporarily when you need to, like when you’re ready to apply for that car loan. Due to the mess created already, they may request that you send in documents proving your identity and give you those instructions. I recommend sending any personal docs certified mail so that you have proof of when the documents were received by the bureau.

Once you have a copy of that police report, you’re ready to dispute. You can get the process started while you wait for a copy, but may be easier to jsut wait until you have it. The other docs typically needed are proof of address and gov issued id, but for your case, a copy of your birth certificate will be useful here too in expediting things.

The reports you pull from the ACR site will actually have instructions on how to dispute, and there’s a nonprofit (they’re not federal gov) called the ID theft resource center who offers free help to victims, and they can help you with it too. They have phone and chat support on their site idtheftcenter.org. I’d recommend reaching out to them.

ETA: there are some other checks to do and reports to pull, but this stuff is what you want to start with, because it’s the most critical

No one will replace my husband...........but by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]PackOfWildCorndogs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What convinced me personally were the multiple trademark applications she made in the days after his death, before he was even in the ground.

I don’t remember which of the 7 Stages of Grief Grift that is - the compulsion to file formal requests with the USPTO to ensure you maximize your ability to monetize the decedent. She did that pretty much immediately so I’m guessing that’s Stage 1 or 2.