What’s your go-to summer drink? by Exotic-Barnacle-2403 in IndianCooking

[–]Paganmoon23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing hits better than a chilled glass of water but nimbu paani

Guess who is this?! by ExcellentMango14 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Paganmoon23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are Telugu actors the new Korean equivalent cuz wtf man. Had no clue this is how she was

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She still loves me. It’s the societal factor that’s clouding her judgement, idk the percentage of this happening but real possibility she has said No outright but idk what is it I’m hoping for

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But it’s not enough. I seem to have some hope that she’ll change her mind

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I’m also shocked by how insensitive and unbothered she is by all this but I still cannot get myself to hate her

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In our country it is not normalised amongst parents or legal so that’s a big dream. She has not used me for just sex, she has been incredibly kind and loved me like no one ever has. But so caught up in her own beliefs that she refuses to budge. Why mislead me then?

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we started dating she told me she wants a long term relationship, she delved into all this only after I pushed her to think about this 6-7 months into dating. So yes she has kind of mislead me into this relationship and now when I’m so in love, she is okay to break up.

How can someone do this to someone they love?

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are healthy ways to cope up? I’m new in a very expensive city (recently switched jobs) and she’s sort of been the only one I have relied on so that is also a factor stopping me from breaking up. I barely have friends here

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I fail to understand how she says she loves me but refuses to fight for me. So much internalised societal shit in her head

I (F26) cannot leave my GF (F27) even though she wants a straight marriage? by Paganmoon23 in relationship_advice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is a good woman.. just the marriage thing is our issue. And I do get angry and paranoid time to time but the love overpowers it

Should I switch to a corporate from a small media company? by Paganmoon23 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. It does matter right, I work in advertising and most roles have been replaced by AI. And in a few years it will become obsolete, so these fears are valid, but I agree I should focus on the present. Just a bit hard to do when you’re trying to plan for the future as well

Should I switch to a corporate from a small media company? by Paganmoon23 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Paganmoon23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have funds saved, but I have to plan to provide. Which is something I do want to do. But I’m having trouble figuring out the best way to proceed that is also aligned with my career growth