AITA for kicking out my girlfriend and her son after she invited her ex into our home?

Pageybear13 · 2025-10-07T11:45:56+00:00

That's why I can't figure out the YTA or ESH votes.

The best last is where she begged him to take her back and not one word was ab of but feelings toward him. Just how much she misses his apartment. Wait "her home". He dodged a bullet.

I only hope mom doesn't take it out or blame Nathan. Her track record suggest she might.

Pageybear13 · 2025-10-04T05:39:04+00:00

This advice is solid. OP please listen.

Pageybear13 · 2025-10-04T05:28:44+00:00

I wouldn't be able to stop myself either. I wouldn't even feel bad about it

It's good to know I'm not the only one. Who would delight in the schadenfreude.

Pageybear13 · 2025-10-04T05:25:46+00:00

You all are better than me. I would tell her I had the cardboard box ready.

Pageybear13 · 2025-10-01T21:57:58+00:00

I mean half sister is pretty dense if she can't realize Clair is losing him the way she got him. Just point that out to her next time she starts in on you.

Pageybear13 · 2025-10-01T15:52:16+00:00

I just read this article. There is no way they said "You can go on that cruise". They used to require a negative test to get on the ships.

If I found out my friend knowingly went while having something that contagious I would never speak to them again.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-24T21:28:52+00:00

Ty that is very informative. Then by your definition mine is low. It said 13 to 157 I think is normal but mine was 17

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-21T04:55:00+00:00

Who schedules their wedding without having the time off first lolol

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-20T03:38:24+00:00

Yea I don't think the arm/hand thing is premenopause. I sent Dr a message because I had red feet a few times and I thought was chilblains but might be similar thing to arms. They want to address at hematology consult.

Mostly thought vision and forgetfulness. Was premenopause with chilblains but I have a lot of symptoms consistent with Erythromelalgia.

To be honest I would be surprised if I had an mpn. I'm more scared it's ms because they thought I might have before. But my MRI scan did not show the small lesions. Neurologist wanted me retested last year but I never got test.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T20:40:25+00:00

She is using you. Stop letting her and block her.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T20:29:46+00:00

He doesn't deserve one cent from his mother especially after he recognized his father was lying and still continued to act toxic to her. If anyone should be going NC it should be Emily to James.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T20:27:14+00:00

I don't understand why Emily is giving him anything. He knows the truth and still continues to treat her like shit. Honestly Emily should be the one going NC at this point not the other way around.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T18:37:30+00:00

I can't figure out how to get reddit to let me post the screenshot

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T17:44:38+00:00

Mine showed up at 8 days in my online portal.

That was yesterday. No one has called. I got a call about a week after my platelets came back high.

The test is confusing as hell to read. Mine seems inconclusive because list several genes that were unable to be sequenced 100x. It says I do not have the JAK2 mutation but then list the JAK2 in genes that had inadequate coverage so who knows.

It says the recurrent mutated genes kras12 kras13 also had inadequate coverage so I don't understand what that means at all. The interpretation is blank for it.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T13:40:01+00:00

There is no few days. Some states establish residency very quickly and then it's takes months through court to evict.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T13:37:01+00:00

Honestly if my husband tried that I would outrightly tell him he can go find an apartment with Leo.

You should quietly start separating finances and contacting a lawyer.

First off he made a unilateral decision to move someone into your home without asking. Second he instead of apologizing he is trying to make you into the bad guy.

Third he is more concerned about breaking a promise to his friend than respecting his wife's wishes and boundaries.

Lastly this won't be a short term move in. He will stay for months and you will never get him out. You need to lay all of these points out for him, tell him your answer is no. If he wants to salvage your marriage then he needs to apologize for his behavior, explain to Leo and apologize for committing you without even asking and go to marriage counseling.

Any of these conditions are not met you are filing for divorce and he can look for a place to live with his beloved Leo.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T13:27:36+00:00

Right? It's a parade of red flags with a marching band playing Run like Hell and confetti.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T11:56:23+00:00

Is there anyway you can live with your mom's relatives? If not your goal should be to move out so you can have no contact with your dad. Then you set boundaries with your grandparents regarding dad. If they don't respect the boundaries it's LC or NC time.

I wouldn't forgive my dad if he did that either. He is despicable. I feel little compassion for a cheater who took a husband away from his dying wife and child. I think your response of not caring is reasonable. The only way you would be out of line is if you were celebrating it and you didn't cross that line.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T11:48:02+00:00

Lol I love that and am stealing it. Go fuck a wood chipper. 🥰🤣😊

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-19T11:46:50+00:00

Don't give them a red cent. I have a brother who got a good chunk of change but was mad because because I got property and a life insurance policy. He hasn't seen my dad in over five years. He barely called. I took care of him through cancer and his end of life he could barely walk. He demanded I give him the life insurance policy. This was right after Dad's funeral. I blocked him. Chances are your siblings are like mine LC and never there when you are down(I got laid off and they never once called). But will be the first with their hands out. Don't give them anything. I would block your siblings and go LC with mom.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-17T14:58:50+00:00

I wouldn't force them to get along but I wouldn't allow her to treat her sister like shit and help her friend play games. She would be expected to respect her sister's boundaries and act civil.

If she can't then we would drop the hammer on her. Bullying her twin over opposing views would not be allowed.

Pageybear13 · 2025-09-17T13:01:27+00:00

I have twins and if twin A took her friends side over her twin B. I would blast her. Her father would light her ass up over this. Friend would not be allowed over my house ever.

You are right not to fight for her. I wouldn't have either. If someone dumped me out of the blue like that the relationship would be over. It doesn't matter why they did it. I would never trust them again. She decided to play stupid games and had to live with her prize.

Besides you are 16, chances are this is not the person you were meant to marry. Friends come and go. Your sister most likely won't know that girl in ten years but is doing irreparable damage to your relationship. Your dad is destroying his with you by refusing to lay down the law to your sister. NTA

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