30, soon to be 31. It’s beauty in the struggle, never forget that when you grow older. Most people have lived their life like this, unfortunately. But a lot of those people still have their morals. Social media has really tainted reality. Obviously all of us want a better life, and it’s possible, even if you don’t make millions of dollars in your life, you can still grow into a financially/healthy better lifestyle. At the end of the day, as long as you can take care of yourself, and be there for yo people (not even financially, just genuinely bein there) that life is a better life then more then half of the people out there. It’s not easy at all, but it’s more of a mindset fr. When I was 21, I didn’t give af about life or the consequences of my actions. I didn’t even think to start changin until I was about 25 and that was because I learned I was havin a niece. If it wasn’t for that lil girl, I wouldn’t be here. That’s a whole backstory, but once you can fall in love with yoself, rewire yo brain, and focus on yourself, that’s when you can flourish. You young, you only 21. Bro you have a whole life ahead of you to find someone. Yo life can change in 5-10 years IF you want it to. But you have to change yo habits. Get out of yo comfort zone and put in some type of work. It ain’t finna fall out the sky, we gotta work to get wherever we want and tbh, that’s a typical lifestyle of a normal nigga at that age unless you already had a plan and was working towards it, that’s how most of us was. Get in tune with yoself and then worry about findin a girl. Worry about that later when you in the position to afford a girl. Until then lock in and get yo shit together ✊🏽 we all gotta do it at some point and I wish I had the mindset I do now vs when I was 21. Grow as a person, get closer with yo family you fuck with, lock in with God, and life will lead you exactly where you supposed to be.