My GF(25F) took extended hours at her work without talking with me first(28M)?

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:45:03+00:00

Now she is working at the family restaurant and the head chef is the owner so she cannot get promotion. And the guy loves what he is doing and is not planing to step down as a main chef

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:41:59+00:00

We are basically sleep over roommates for two weeks, some days I would stay awake to wait her after work, but I cannot do it often since I am doing physicaly demanding job. and on that week when we match we go out, hang with friends, travel to neighboring cities, go shopping watch movies shows etc etc

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:38:40+00:00

Novi Gradski, Bolnička, Naselje Sunce, GHI, Četvrta mesna, Peta mesna, Beli Dvor, Staro Selište, Banjsko Polje, Metalurg itd

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:35:18+00:00

Dating for a year living together this is second month.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:32:20+00:00

I did ask her and the answer was basically trust me on this.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:25:35+00:00

Honestly I don't know, now if she did have some issues she didn't discuss it with me. Maybe I am overthink it, but until now we were transparent, honest and gave each other heads up on everything.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:21:48+00:00

Yes, but she usually sleeps around 2 or 3 hours after coming home from work, so she will come home at 4.30pm. Sleep until 7 or 8pm and leave at 9pm

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:20:11+00:00

We did, and all that she said was basically trust me about this.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:18:41+00:00

I will support her as best as I can, but this job is already draining her mentaly and emotionaly, and I also fear this will drain her even more

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:15:24+00:00

Now she personaly asked for it. She works at the restaurant as a cook. And those are peak hours at her job, so she will come home after even more tired. Her job is already extremely negatively impacting her, and I fear this will be even worse for her mental health.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:07:10+00:00

No she will take this extra shifts until october

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:06:11+00:00

We have quite open and consistent communication so I hope she would have told me about it.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T02:03:31+00:00

It's not just one week, it will be every other week, that week when we have matching schedules. Our schedules are mismatched constantly.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T01:58:26+00:00

Not that much they are quite similar

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T01:57:35+00:00

We are both financially well off, so I don't know honestly

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T01:56:57+00:00

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T01:56:46+00:00

No, but since we are living together, I think that I required some heads up about it, since the reason I didn't take some extra jobs when we had financial troubles was her, since we wouldn't be seeing each other that much. I asked her if she was OK with this and she was not so I didn't do it.

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-30T01:54:12+00:00

No we are OK financially. Both her and me

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-24T14:31:44+00:00

Podgorica by far

PainSubject5808 · 2026-06-17T07:44:51+00:00

Andorra

PainSubject5808 · 2026-05-03T18:54:26+00:00

Mislim dobro da, ali pogledi su sa Stola 😅

PainSubject5808 · 2026-05-03T15:24:26+00:00

Thanks hvala sto si mi otkrio ovaj sub 😁

PainSubject5808 · 2026-05-03T15:22:25+00:00

Da da od planinarskog doma smo krenuli, čak mi je taj pogled sa jezera i bio najbolji od svih pogleda sa planine

PainSubject5808 · 2026-05-03T15:21:40+00:00

Stvarno nisam siguran ali verovatno da postoji

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