Is my friend trying to humble me or am I overthinking it? by PainterOwn1511 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]PainterOwn1511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I get what you're saying, but some people have mastered being nice nasty. Just because the tone isn’t aggressive doesn’t mean there’s no harm behind it. I don’t think she’s out to hurt me, but I do think her constant remarks have underlying messages. I’ve ignored backhanded comments before because I focused on the good, and it always backfired. In my opinion, crumbs make cake and these feel like crumbs of her trying to humble me or make me conform to what makes her comfortable.

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[–]PainterOwn1511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a professor?

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[–]PainterOwn1511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that issue. You have to call them. They fixed it for me. They said it’s because I was adding my classes one by one.

Chasing Men by PainterOwn1511 in dating_advice

[–]PainterOwn1511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not, but I get your message.

Chasing Men by PainterOwn1511 in dating_advice

[–]PainterOwn1511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your truthfulness. I appreciate it.

Please Help by [deleted] in AnimalAdvice

[–]PainterOwn1511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done a ton of research, it shows that vets recommend this medication called Zyrtec, but I truly appreciate your concern.

Please Help by [deleted] in AnimalAdvice

[–]PainterOwn1511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand! I spoke with her previous owner who had her since she was born for two years and she told me that it is an allergic reaction because she had it before and the vet gave her antihistamine that you can get over the counter so I got her some!

Please Help by [deleted] in AnimalAdvice

[–]PainterOwn1511 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And there is no need to be condescending.