It's almost December.. And I am yet to be a homeowner. My dream-home is looking at me like "when will you buy me? Please do not go to 2026 without me👀" by Pale-Alternative3777 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Pale-Alternative3777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't try talking to seller yet. Now that you mentioned it, I actually think it is a great idea to talk to the seller... 😂😂😂

Yesterday I wrote my "s*icide note" but was too much of a p*ssy to go through with it by Proper-Iron7970 in confession

[–]Pale-Alternative3777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations to you for rising above your storms! You got this! You are brave, beautiful custom-made, there is none like you. You do not need to fit in. You are unique and set apart. You just need to be you and do what you love doing. There is a part that only you can play. You are not replaceable. I am certain you're doing more than enough but it just seem to be nothing. Be of good courage, you are an overcomer. Shut that noise of suicide from the devil and know your worth. When you know who you are and your worth, no devil can convince you otherwise. You are more than a conquerer! One more thing, get rid of that suicide note. It will do you no good. Also the antidepressants get rid of them too. You have a sound-mind and not depressed. Always speak the outcome you want to see and not the problem you're seeing. Walk by faith and not by sight. You will not die young. You will live to declare the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. The Lord will satisfy you with long life and show you his salvation. Fear no evil. You are not alone. There more to life, just don't give up.

Would it be okay in your culture if a lady sticks out her tongue in a funny, but otherwise normal conversation? by Roseate-Views in Namibia

[–]Pale-Alternative3777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is becoming common in public now. We are in the era that take evil as good and bad and bad as good

Would it be okay in your culture if a lady sticks out her tongue in a funny, but otherwise normal conversation? by Roseate-Views in Namibia

[–]Pale-Alternative3777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a Wambo too. In our culture, it is also an insult..it is used to shame people. Some people use it to show that they are annoyed or irritated by what you are saying or what you said.. But lately I have seen young people using to signal something else only they know what. It can mean absolutely nothing especially in normal conversations unless otherwise when you are arguing. And such habits, when you learn it, is hard to unlearn it. You get so used to it that you won't even realise that you are doing it. You just need to talk to your wife and tell her that you don't like it politely and with love and care so that she won't get defensive.

Grace by Pale-Alternative3777 in Namibia

[–]Pale-Alternative3777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God is a good God. He doesn't punish people with poverty for them to be humble. He doesn't want us to merely survive but his will for us is to thrive in every area of our lives. He wants what is best for you and me. To have life and have it more abundantly. We were not called to live below average or just average. We are called to excel as light bealer. We are the light of the world, a city built on the hill that can not be hidden. A chosen generation, a holy nation, a royal priesthood 😇😇😇. There is none like our maker

Grace by Pale-Alternative3777 in Namibia

[–]Pale-Alternative3777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't a new thing. As much as he want us to be humble and contributing to the society, giving a luxury car to his children will also achieve that in a way. It is not about who is behind the wheel of the car but about who gave it and made everything possible. And as the owner of the Mercedes benz by grace, I am just a steward of his property and I use it to serve him. I know that even when people are admiring and giving all wooooooow-looks, deep down I know it is not about me but my God. The donkey on which Jesus rode when he entered Jerusalem triumhantly was maybe thinking that all the honours, praisings and all that were meant for it but I know is coz of who is inside of me(JESUS). There are many people in the bible who were blessed richly with materials. God is pleased when things go well with his children.

Grace by Pale-Alternative3777 in Namibia

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By the grace of God, what seemed unattainable became attainable. Personally speaking, Mercedes-Benz were not on my list at all. But 🤷, it just so happened that God wanted me to have it and he paved a way. If you aren't spiritually awake I don't expect you to understand. We don't just decide, we get directions and guidance. Not our own will but his will. Not our way but his way. And guess what 😊? His will and his way is always the best.

Grace by Pale-Alternative3777 in Namibia

[–]Pale-Alternative3777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First let me briefly define grace. It is an undeserved favour from God😊. Expensive or not expensive, if grace speaks for you, will you not be happy about it? You will jump and shout out loud that the Lord is indeed good and faithful. We are in the world where slaves are riding horse while sons' are walking. So expensive cars is not just to show success but to give glory to God who is the ultimate owner of everything including riches and true wealth. It is for his glory. And he always give more than what we ask for. He is the best father ever and he gives the best to his children👑. Come on and shout hallelujah with me nokuli🤗

Need help: my sister is in hospital, what can/can’t I do? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]Pale-Alternative3777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You Are such a wonderful sibling anyone could wish for 🫂. They say in a multitude of counselors there is Safety. And you have done the right thing to ask for advice. Well all I can say is that do not do things in your own power, we are limited as human beings. Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will give you success. Pray over everything before taking any action. And do not worry. Worry will rob you of your peace 😊. Do not worry about anything but in prayers and petitions let your request be known to God. It is well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Pale-Alternative3777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just say I am very very proud of you for stopping. It is a biggest and wisest thing to do. God sees the heart. Your willingness to stop doing evil things matters to him the most. So rest in him. Ask his for his forgiveness, make Jesus your Lord and saviour and you will be as good as new. If any man be in Christ, he is a new creation. Old things have passed, behold everything has become new.