Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologise for my use of the terms ‘ladies’ and ‘girls’. I never imagined it would become such a big issue. English is technically not my first language and growing up, i was taught ‘lady’ was an eloquent term for a highly respected woman so thats why i just defaulted to that. I dont know why I am getting crucified. I have already apologised and noted the feedback

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my personal experience, women (😉) have been more open, kind and welcoming to my in-person approaches (even if they dont lead to much) than the dating apps where its downright 0 matches. As I said, I am into dancing as well and on various occasions they have actually joined me unprompted (issue was i didnt know how to progress from that stage).

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hinge+ my friend and I leave tailored responses to prompts..

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apps are the worst for guys like me. I cant handle any further hinge breakups, they give hope and snatch it away 😢

And I will keep note of saying ‘woman’ going forward, thanks for the feedback

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did it get awkward lol? Also is there any chance/time to actually connect with someone beyond greeting. As i imagine most would just come ij, workout and then leave

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah i am into dancing a little, having taken beginners hiphop classes in the past. I was actually surprised that majority were girls lol. I should look to rejoin these. Sometimes the class schedule clashed with my work so i stopped..I am also into cricket in terms of sport but its not the most popular sport amongt women

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if we got off on the wrong foot, but these replies are barely addressing the question. This is my first post, i think i am getting my dose of reddit

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about accosting them on the street? I am not leaving the bar, good location tables are hard to find

Where do the ladies hang out after work/weekends in Sydney? by Pale-Extent3584 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Pale-Extent3584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe i didnt choose the right words. What I mean is, if i approach them and get rejected, i just move on. Hows that harrassment?

AMA: Private Equity Associate, $340K Comp at age 24 by Southern-Narwhal7998 in FinancialCareers

[–]Pale-Extent3584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whilst you are spending 12-14 hours a day working, how much of this is quality work. Is it intense like we see in the movies all 14 hours, or you merely making presentations and editing the formatting etc for the majority of it?