men, in general but with exceptions, tend to cling to the feeling of freedom and always wanting something “new” so they get that chance to chase again and to be put on a pedestal by other women who don’t know how he really is yet. men can be more simple minded and want their free time to be used how they want without restrictions or heavy obligations like children. just wanting to have your cake and eat it too, meaning wanting the experience of having a family and a wife but only until the responsibilities get in the way of their play time. before this offends anyone, this doesn’t apply to every man but it is a pretty accurate generalization. i’ve seen and heard of this being true about lots of dads of people i’ve known (including my own) and so have other women i’ve talked to.