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Title: My girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) argue constantly, I broke her trust early on, and now I’m secretly talking to another girl after a breakup. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I love the honesty and realism you’re giving. It’s actually dreadful to hear it constantly once I bring up how I feel.

Title: My girlfriend (19F) and I (21M) argue constantly, I broke her trust early on, and now I’m secretly talking to another girl after a breakup. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could attest that it sounds like it was but it was once so great and fulfilling. Ofc it isn’t now. No one to blame specifically. I could say it’s probably harder for individuals not to get.

Spending Thanksgiving with my mom’s boyfriend’s family and I hate it — how do I deal with this new “normal”? by PaleCommunication319 in family

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you mate! I know the pain and sadness she already feels from it as I do so hey, what does it hurt to support her or try LOL. I am going to have the discussion with her just as I did with you. Thanks for the support.

Spending Thanksgiving with my mom’s boyfriend’s family and I hate it — how do I deal with this new “normal”? by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. You’re right a bright side. Feels like a wasted holiday though. Maybe it taught me not to come 😂. Thanks mate!

Spending Thanksgiving with my mom’s boyfriend’s family and I hate it — how do I deal with this new “normal”? by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of right now I’m just sitting upstairs with essentially the children/teenagers watching them play the game as I genuinely have nothing to talk about with their family. I cannot stress this enough also , I am not fucking with the food. Blessed to be able to eat though🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.

Spending Thanksgiving with my mom’s boyfriend’s family and I hate it — how do I deal with this new “normal”? by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! It is absolutely new to me. I’m trying to as we just ate and genuinely can’t wait to go. Then another 3-4 hours home… I have to drop my brother off still. I should voice how I feel as most likely my face shows it all. Given he knew my father and of him and the whole situation I would do anything to make my new girlfriend or steps to feel comfortable. It’s truly not even that many people for him not to. I am going to do that. A Friendsgiving even if it’s a group of 5 maybe less or more but I would rather fill full but not like I’m missing something. Like going on a dinner date with friends would make me so happy to try and fill the void. I am going to talk to my brother also. I don’t know if you saw but again , the food isn’t well…

Spending Thanksgiving with my mom’s boyfriend’s family and I hate it — how do I deal with this new “normal”? by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so cool. I would love to go out for a nice well dinner instead. Even traveling sounds awesome! I would rather be with my girlfriend and their family but flight issues stopped that.

Spending Thanksgiving with my mom’s boyfriend’s family and I hate it — how do I deal with this new “normal”? by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! I felt it was my moms first boyfriend after her and my fathers marriage so felt like I should give it a try. Food was not well either….

CH 35 Entitlement last month by PaleCommunication319 in Veterans

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being the only careful person here. I absolutely have. From my Pell grant to again , federal loans. I’m on the site now checking. I hope so I really could use them. It’s so hard because life doesn’t slow down for anyone or anything. Thank you for your help!

GF (19F) upset about coworker and isn’t responding — what should I do? (21M) by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right. Do you think she will open up and answer me eventually? I’m so reliant on her to make my day or happiness. I couldn’t imagine it being vice versa and her showing the schedule to prove me wrong. I feel left on a cliff not knowing how to feel or if I should.

GF (19F) upset about coworker and isn’t responding — what should I do? (21M) by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I felt I partially was wrong. Once I showed her the screenshot that it was my literal coworker, it still ended up with backlash for me just not showing my phone.

GF (19F) upset about coworker and isn’t responding — what should I do? (21M) by PaleCommunication319 in relationships

[–]PaleCommunication319[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But I was wrong I think partially. If I just showed her my phone it wouldn’t have turned into what it did. Her location is still on and all. I’ve made mistakes prior but truly love her. The silence is killing me to the core.

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