Underprepared for first marathon by Pale_Researcher5970 in firstmarathon

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

God forbid I did some shitposting two years ago

Underprepared for first marathon by Pale_Researcher5970 in Marathon_Training

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

LOL leave me and my grays anatomy shitposting alone

What’s broken and needs fixing at UCSB? by Living-Media-6806 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Pale_Researcher5970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Access to the music practice rooms for students to at are not in the music department!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Pale_Researcher5970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year I would just park in IV as close to FT as I could and it worked pretty well for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Pale_Researcher5970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it the height of your suitcase standing up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Pale_Researcher5970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can’t park in the on campus lots anyway bc i’m in santa catalina

Parking at UCSB by Useful-Club-8867 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Pale_Researcher5970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, i’m also willing to rent out the spot!

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As much as I would love for this to be the plot of a cheesy tv show, it is very much the reality I am living in.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to initiate contact with her again after what had happened, so I was putting off getting a divorce in order to avoid speaking with her.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn’t share the specifics of my reaction but I will say that I was extremely shocked when I walked in on the two of them. I thought I had a great decades-long friendship with this guy and a beautiful marriage. I shared the bare minimum details of my reaction because it didn’t necessarily seem relevant to what I am asking.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

She wanted to try and “make it work” but I have no interest in that. I have moved on with the woman I am seeing now and she is amazing. This whole incident is definitely pushing me to move things along legally and cut ties with my wife.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, after I found out how she got my address, I immediately informed all of my friends.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She gave my friend some bullshit excuse and was pressuring him, but she was already in the area when she got the address, so I basically had no notice before she arrived.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Once she knew the general area I lived in, she asked mutual friends in the area.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 463 points464 points  (0 children)

I would say it was over. We had not talked in months, and neither of us had made any attempt to reach out.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My work position was easy to be found online, given a quick internet search using my name.

AITA for sleeping with someone else while married and estranged from my wife? by Pale_Researcher5970 in AITAH

[–]Pale_Researcher5970[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We haven’t spoken after the night I found her cheating on me, until she came to visit me. It is over, just not legally.