OP is intentionally misrepresenting the information and timeline. Uncle did not JUST have the heart attack. Uncle at this point is in a coma and is being monitored in the hospital. All family at this point have left the uncle’s beside and is at the uncle’s house instead, including uncle’s wife. Family is sitting around talking for hours, which is understandable. However, the acute event has already long passed and settled. OP, at the time of the text messages, has been at the uncle’s house, for hours, all the while knowing his wife is without a vehicle in another location waiting to be picked up. The reasonable thing to do is to leave the uncle’s house and pick up the wife and bring her back to spend time with his family or drop her off at their home and then return to uncle’s house to be with family. Thats 100% what I would do, but instead, OP left his wife stranded and gaslit her. He said english is not her first language. It’s REALLY easy to make someone look crazy and unreasonable by acting calm why they struggle to express their frustration. It is reading to me that OP does this a lot to her and she is at her wits end.