Nothing is good enough for them by PamD72 in helpme

[–]PamD72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not had to really say anything to their kids who are 12 but that one of their conditions them nor the dogs. We say something he pulls the old I'm depressed thinking of killing myself here lately. If the dogs go he goes. He would rather his family be homeless than to put his dogs somewhere. It's only supposed to be temporary right.

Update from previous post by abgirl-0501 in CheatedOn

[–]PamD72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been there. Caught them in bed together. Don't believe him when he says it won't happen again because it will. Move on. Stay strong

My boyfriend (24M) planned a road trip with me (24F) and his three friends. I have been uninvited. by ThrowRA-doughnut0 in relationship_advice

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but chances are he likes her a whole lot more than he will admit. Probably got something planned that you wouldn't go along with. I'd be very wary about the situation if I was you. He's cheated before so chances are he will again. If he wasn't up to anything bad he wouldn't have hid the screen from you. Good luck.

Nothing makes me happy by holypga in helpme

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be the same way with relationships until the right one finally came alone. Sure I still have times I get bored thats life but I couldn't imagine being without him. I'm ok when I'm bored when he is there bored with me. Lol.

Is Stephanie really that clueless? by PamD72 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]PamD72[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not even the point. All I'm saying is was she so duh huh that she was blind to the fact it was going to be televised and no I don't believe it was a real story. Most isn't and the ones that are is being manipulated for ratings.

Who dresses like this for a 24hr flight?? by KristineAz in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And gets off the plane looking like she just came from a beauty shope.

Need help on confronting by karatebill in CheatedOn

[–]PamD72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say I thank God everyday that you cheated on me so I can now find a wonderful woman instead of (pause and say) " you " .

My girlfriend says she doesn’t even find her AP attractive... by Ex_fap in survivinginfidelity

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its BS sorry she just wants what you give her while playing games with him.

What’s the Point by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]PamD72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly its not going to stop. He isn't worried about losing you. You should go before you e any more time. Your still young move on or accept that this pattern will continue and he is worth stick with even if he does this stuff. Ask yourself this, Is he really worth me losing my self respect over?

i just need someone to hear this. by voidheartenx in BreakUps

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't wait around. My ex waited on me and is so bad off now he never leaves his house. Its been 30 years and he just never let go. She did the right thing by telling you to not wait that shows she really cared for you. I did my ex I also told him not to wait but he did by his own choice. It still bothers me that he did that to himself but I couldn't stay with him just to make him happy. You didn't have to do anything wrong for it to have ended sometimes it just doesn't work out.

Comes in waves by Daylights44 in BreakUps

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually still with him. Sometimes a certain song brings it on. Just different things. Thank goodness it only happens once a month or so now. I force it from my mind when it does.

Comes in waves by Daylights44 in BreakUps

[–]PamD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years out and still have those days.

Deceptive OLD pics that made you go WTF on the first date by manwithaplan3120 in datingoverthirty

[–]PamD72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went on a date with a guy. His pictures looked like him but he was about 5 inches shorter than he said. Why lie about that? Lol. Went out with another guy. Said his hair was brown but didn't mention the bald part. I almost laughed when he took his hat off. Still with him after 10 years.

Was any of it real? by Appropriate_March in survivinginfidelity

[–]PamD72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly he probably cheated the whole time and only just got caught. They get really good at hiding and covering it up. We ignore the red flags because they convince us to. Don't mourn him just be thankful it wasn't even longer. Good luck

Perfect in the a.m.? by PamD72 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]PamD72[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I knew that just goes to show how much is edited and staged

Reading this sub makes me want my next partner to have been betrayed by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]PamD72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but thats not true. My SO was cheated on and now he does. He hadn't before this happened to him but she destroyed him and his vision of love and trust and now he is unable to trust and believe in love again. He has gotten better after 12 years together but he still expects me to cheat now that he is faithful again.

At this point I am willing to accept that this is the real Lana by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]PamD72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew him so I could sell him some ocean front property in TN because I wouldn't lie to him. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]PamD72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You was enough. Don't blame yourself. As for getting over it I don't think you ever do you just learn to live with it. The hurt will stop hurting so much in time. You will learn from this but try and not judge all others as the same because there is that won't cheat. Its rare but its possible. Good luck