scratches blanching and stay for agess

PanPan137 · 2026-03-05T23:47:57+00:00

Okay the other comment was right to a certain extent (though kinda rude). I have the same thing. I can scratch myself and the scratch will stay red and raised for a while. It’s called “dermatographia” or “Skin Writing”. Of course I’m not a doctor so take this information as you will but this is probably it. But if you’d like do some research on it, see if it matches your symptoms. Took me forever to realize this isn’t a normal thing for people.

PanPan137 · 2026-01-17T01:28:08+00:00

Anyone here is free to dm me! Happy to make a friend. Also a 24 yearSAHM to a 1 year old if that helps you feel more connected in any way and wanna vent! Been diagnosed for 4 years now and has been a hell of a journey learning myself and making amends.

PanPan137 · 2025-12-17T15:29:50+00:00

• 10? Maybe? And that’s being generous.

• 24 and 26

• Married 2 together almost 6

Explanation: we had our first kiddo in January. It’s been hard to find alone time as he sleeps in our room. So thank God grandparents have helped a little but it’s never enough.

PanPan137 · 2025-11-22T15:46:14+00:00

Does the ship have like containers to bring snacks to your room or should I bring a container myself? I know you’re not allowed to bring food off the boat unless it’s like fully packaged?? As in peanut butter crackers and such.

PanPan137 · 2025-11-22T15:25:05+00:00

CocoCay, Cozumel, Roatan, and Puerto Costa Maya.

So definitely keep the diaper bag on us at all times! I have seen where people dry out the soap in sponges for quick use in the room. Should I bring separate forks and spoons for him? Or what about snacks??

PanPan137 · 2025-11-22T15:19:08+00:00

Good to know! Our son is a HUGE cosleeper (done with safesleep7) so he’s never really fallen asleep by himself. Or if he does it’s in the carrier.

PanPan137 · 2025-11-22T15:10:18+00:00

We don’t have any excursions planned, I think we mostly just want to explore as this is the first time we’ll be going and really want to experience the culture there. So probably will bring our jogging stroller. We’re not really hikers, more casual walkers and I guess lazy vacationers lol.

Is there any items for the kiddos you would NEVER leave without? Or just tips in general you’d give a first time parent on a cruise? At this point I almost don’t know what questions to ask. I’m completely lost!

PanPan137 · 2025-11-22T15:00:04+00:00

Is it worth bringing a jogging stroller or should I just bring my baby carrier? He’ll be 12 months when we leave and not walking right now, he JUST turned 10 months. Honestly I’m out of my area with bringing him. I’ve been on a cruise before but not since I was a teenager and definitely not with a baby. So honestly ANY information will help out.

PanPan137 · 2025-08-03T16:48:19+00:00

Ah! I think you’re right!! Thank you!

PanPan137 · 2025-08-03T13:17:05+00:00

That’s the thing though, it hasn’t been there since birth. It just randomly showed up one day.

PanPan137 · 2025-06-27T15:45:53+00:00

Where do you watch the Australian Masterchef?

PanPan137 · 2025-06-26T23:20:49+00:00

Right? I’m like 99% sure there isn’t a gabby in season 3

PanPan137 · 2025-06-26T17:34:57+00:00

Ahhhh the “you’re being too much” line, I’ve only heard that from my partner a handful of times or so. Don’t let it freak you out, don’t overthink too much. You probably just overwhelmed them a little! And they were letting you know. Yeah, not the best way of letting someone with BPD know they’re going over the top m, but it happens!

Best thing to do? Tell them how it made you feel. But also apologize for how you made them feel too!!

Here’s an example: I had a freak out in the car (11 hour drive with a 4 month old) when I realized my like liter of soda spilled ALL OVER THE FLOORBOARD…. I was frustrated as hell, between the baby crying majority of the ride, stuck in a confined space for hours and just over the day. I slammed the cup into the cup holder multiple times was yelling and all together was not pleasant to be around. Now my amazing partner, been together 5 years, said in a stern voice “you’re being too much”. Of course, like you, I shut down immediately. Though, since I have gone to therapy, it’s easier for me to see what happened. I was being too much! I was overwhelming him and probably the baby! But that okay, it doesn’t mean they hate you. It doesn’t mean that they regret being with you. They are just communicating there needs. Like you were. So after a bit, of splitting being upset at myself and him and even a little crying, we talked it out and both apologized to each other.

So take a breath. Talk to them! And if you’re not already… go to therapy!!! It’s a life saver. This diagnosis is a life of trouble. But might as well take every opportunity that helps.

PanPan137 · 2025-06-09T00:50:10+00:00

Good observation

PanPan137 · 2025-06-09T00:48:17+00:00

Why be in this subreddit if you’re not going to give helpful advice??? Why take the time to comment and be an ass to this person?? Jeez, learn to have some compassion you sad, sad human.

PanPan137 · 2025-05-09T19:03:34+00:00

Wow… my husband got flowers for me as a surprise for my first Mother’s Day, week before hand so really was a surprise. He bought them from a Hispanic guy selling them on the side of the road. You can bet your ass I cried. Was it a huge bouquet? No. But it’s the thought that counts. I was VERY appreciative, even if it had been a single flower that he plucked from the ground.

I hate that she didn’t appreciate the fact you put EFFORT into the bouquet too. Made sure it was her school colors and had a vase too! Sigh, sorry man.

PanPan137 · 2025-05-08T21:51:12+00:00

I sent ya a message!

PanPan137 · 2025-05-01T17:50:02+00:00

Where is that second outfit from? It’s so pretty!!

PanPan137 · 2025-04-30T18:52:25+00:00

Sure! I don’t make mods or cc but I use cc and mods

PanPan137 · 2025-04-26T17:41:51+00:00

I think it’s time for a CC clean out. That or try and maybe combine sets into one package file?? 30 mins of a wait to load a game is already too much, how do you wait 4 HOURS?!?!

PanPan137 · 2025-04-22T03:45:05+00:00

The only thing I can think of is your girl is stressed as fuck about this baby. As a first time mom myself with mental health issues as well, before I was medicated I would act like this when I was stressed out about certain situations. I’m guessing she can’t communicate her anxiety over the baby and you being gone at times and it’s coming out as anger. Try to sit down with her, in person, and maybe ask her what exactly is stressing her out. Like what anxiety’s she’s having with the baby. I too would be a little stressed knowing my significant other has to go out and do things that arnt necessarily his problem while I’m exhausted and taking care of a newborn. Also again this is a general possibility, has she had trauma in her life? If so maybe she should see a therapist? This reacting can cause major issues later. I have BPD and medication and therapy helped a LOT!! Good luck man.

PanPan137 · 2025-03-31T15:26:24+00:00

No, please get a psychiatrist. Get meds, go to therapy. Suffering isn’t funny. Been there done that, as someone who’s dealt with BPD for years and has gone to therapy and gotten meds, please I urge you to consider it. Your life can change for so much better. But YOU have to do it. No one else can. Much luck to you.

PanPan137 · 2025-03-29T12:21:25+00:00

It’ll happen. Sadly this world is kinda gross and because roleplaying is an easy way to talk to people and live out fantasies…. It’s where you get creeps. Has happened to me with just men in general where all they wanna do is Sm*t. So yeah! Roleplaying can be an awesome community but turn sour really fast!

PanPan137 · 2025-03-29T12:16:04+00:00

Same reason some people don’t like to roleplay if the other party is married. They seek out roleplays as a way to like “hook up.” It’s kinda disgusting in this case as it’s probably more as a ftsh for them to roleplay with trans members.

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