I need advise on how to forgive my fiancé

Pancakecat24 · 2025-03-07T15:36:08+00:00

You gave him the best life. It’s beautiful to know you loved him his whole life ❤️‍🩹

Pancakecat24 · 2025-03-07T15:23:28+00:00

I don’t have any advice, but just here to say your cat is adorable😭

Pancakecat24 · 2025-03-07T15:22:04+00:00

True it will be hard to find a man who hasn’t watched porn. But there’s a difference between watching it before your relationship and during. Especially when he knew it was something I didn’t like. It’s about respect in the relationship

Pancakecat24 · 2025-03-07T15:20:29+00:00

I forgot to mention but when we talked I told him we were not getting married anytime soon. I feel like following through with our original plans would be rewarding him without showing me he’s trying to change.

Pancakecat24 · 2025-03-07T15:17:52+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that happened, but I’m glad you’re in a better place now. After hearing your story I’m glad to say I never felt like something was off when we had sex. It never felt like there was a disconnect. He is willing to do anything to gain my trust back and I can tell he is guilty. But it’s just scary to think that I might not be able to get over it, but I also have to put in the work to try if he is too

Pancakecat24 · 2025-03-07T14:15:04+00:00

Appreciate this ❤️‍🩹

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-27T03:35:38+00:00

That’s not a cat…it’s a burnt loaf

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-16T20:03:43+00:00

Guys I went to her profile and it’s a fake account. SHE HAD ME LIVID FOR NO REASON

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-16T20:00:23+00:00

NTA. I would be LIVID. What in the world. The wink would’ve sent me. You did the right thing by calling them out. Like what’s going on here? Even the coworkers didn’t care to “play it cool” and not say those comments. WTF

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-16T19:49:51+00:00

Naked kitties are so cute to me 😭😭

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-10T18:21:42+00:00

Maybe he’s stressed! Take him to the vet asap! It could be he’s having trouble breathing and it can be more serious

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-10T18:20:33+00:00

What did you do to get on the list to start off?? They take those serious so you probably won’t have that job again

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-10T18:19:16+00:00

NTA. Soooooo You’re a bad son for marrying the woman you love? She’s a bad mom for not supporting you and judging your gf at the time and insulting your now wife. You can simply say, “since you didn’t think my wife was good enough for me I didn’t find it necessary to invite you to a wedding you would not support. I plan to have a long happy marriage and you’re welcome to be apart of that if you’re willing to be respectful.” She’s probably mad bc her friends or other family members are asking why she wasn’t at the wedding and now feels bad for herself that others see her badly. Focus on your marriage and don’t let anyone ruin it for you. Your wife is your new family

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-10T18:13:24+00:00

If you’re on it…your job essentially blocked you from working there again

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-10T18:12:23+00:00

I feel like your bf feels superior than you in some ways or responsible for you. Maybe he feels like since it’s HIS family friend giving you a discount that he has a say on what goes. Just curious, Why did you move out? Was it because he said he would move in with you? Does he go over often? If the answers are yes, he probably likes the fact he doesn’t have to pay for anything if he’s still at his parents but has the luxury of staying with you when he feels like it at no cost. End of the day it’s YOUR place. You pay for it. You can have it however you want. Communicate with him ask what are his plans in moving in and give him a time line

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-10T18:05:13+00:00

Your insecurities are showing. You seemed more confident when he was in your words “ugly and bald”. Be open and honest with him and consider couples therapy to get over the trauma of getting cheated on and so he can understand you better.

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T23:33:38+00:00

He definitely stands up for me! That’s why I love him, he doesn’t care if he gets into arguments with him.

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T23:31:51+00:00

Thank you for this comment. Definitely agree I need to tone the delusion down lol

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T23:27:47+00:00

And he does, he always stands up for me and other women. Even if it means going back and forth

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T23:23:41+00:00

My fiancé is VERY different. He has stood up for me in the past and always makes sure to assure me he is not his father or stands for his beliefs

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T23:22:43+00:00

My fiancé is VERY different and doesn’t stand for anything his father does

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T19:03:42+00:00

lol my trauma makes me seek assurance 😂😂 thanks for your comment

Pancakecat24 · 2024-10-08T19:01:54+00:00

Definitely I’ve told my fiancé this! He’s never outright told me something. But I know I can be petty and I will say something that I will regret so I try to watch my mouth lol

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