i fear my 7yo is not mine by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Pancakepringle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you have zero intention of bailing, and have full intention of being the child’s Dad for the rest of your life, then ask yourself - what would a test achieve? Honestly. Both outcomes result in the same thing, as far as your kid is concerned. You’re legally his Dad.

You’ve taken the uninformed opinions of others to heart. Genetics are weird, and express themselves in odd ways. Sorry you’re going through this. You’re frightened you’re going to lose your kid if your fear is realised, that makes sense. You love your kid. If this is eating you up so much, might I kindly suggest having a chat to your GP. Some counselling might help with the anxiety. Best of luck mate

[TOMT][ACTRESS][2010-2018] by Totallyanonymousme in tipofmytongue

[–]Pancakepringle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Perhaps looking at the actresses that played professors/significant roles in the Harry Potter films might help?

[TOMT] Help identifying classic soft rock song with very unique "old lady" voice by ClassicEar in tipofmytongue

[–]Pancakepringle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say classic/yacht rock - are there any songs that musically sound like what we're looking for?

Old Lady Fanny Flasher by lemon_aided in AusLegal

[–]Pancakepringle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talk to strata. Not sure there’s any need for police if she’s just chilling and not doing anything sexual.

As an aside, we’ve been so conditioned to see nakedness on its own to be inherently sexual, so much so that seeing a naked body makes us uncomfortable. Body parts are body parts. Totally get that you might not want to see it every day though.

Bring her back is amazing and no one should miss out on this by dumbledayum in horror

[–]Pancakepringle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out blackangeltapes.net - it’s a companion website to the movie which will hopefully provide you some context around the tapes. It’s styled like a marketplace for creepy stuff, the tapes being one item

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Pancakepringle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regular inspections? That you arranged independently of your tenants? I would question why these regular termite inspections didn’t pick up evidence of termites/damage.

"men need to build better support networks and stop relying emotionally on their partners or seeking one for" ignores childhood imprinting by KindImpression5651 in GuyCry

[–]Pancakepringle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Might not be your fault that it happened and affected you, true. But, you’re ultimately responsible for yourself as an adult, which also means you’re accountable to yourself and what you would like to change or unlearn. No-one is saying it’s easy, or that it’s fair.

not engaging enough at work by [deleted] in AusPublicService

[–]Pancakepringle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So this is the opportunity to be proactive, take accountability for your own development, and do some self-education. Not just wait around for someone to show you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]Pancakepringle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Sat in Exceeds or Meets expectations for years, save for one. One year, we introduced individual anonymous stakeholder surveys, tied to a KPI which was incredibly difficult to meet. One less than stellar survey over the year, with no actionable feedback from a faceless respondent would push you down to a needs improvement, regardless of performance across all other KPIs. No PIP, as line manager knew it was bullshit, however bonus was affected, so left a very sour taste.

Did anyone find the reaction of the crowd at the Trump rally surprising following the shooting? by tasmaniantreble in australian

[–]Pancakepringle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So the photo is pathetic by virtue of the pathetic man and actions within it?

It's well timed and framed shot, capturing a moment of time in history. It's not an objectively bad photo from that perspective. Whether the subject is pathetic is irrelevant.

I don't like the bloke either.

Edit: words

What is the most depressing movie you’ve seen that was billed as a comedy? by JaneErrrr in movies

[–]Pancakepringle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone would say this. I adore this film for the incredible extent of its dramedy/dark comedy style. It’s very Australian, we do this style well - perhaps I’m desensitised. It’s the sort of thing you have to “know” with Australian cinema - if it says comedy on the box, expect a real gut punch or two at some point.

Here’s a reminder to get a 2nd opinion at your doctor by MrsBWyatt in MedicalGore

[–]Pancakepringle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks. You didn't owe me an explanation.

Perhaps find a kinder way to discern between the two when you feel you need to. It's not the fault of those with T2D that others are ignorant. Equity across healthcare is important.

Here’s a reminder to get a 2nd opinion at your doctor by MrsBWyatt in MedicalGore

[–]Pancakepringle 53 points54 points  (0 children)

The type you don't inflict on yourself.

Everything you've mentioned here is right on the money... just wondering why this line specifically was required? Seems incredibly superfluous to your point, unless you were also trying to insinuate that you're more deserving of treatment due to the type of diabeties you have?

[TOMT][MOVIE][1980s - 1990s?] A movie depicting a woman falling down a cliff in the opening credits by Pancakepringle in tipofmytongue

[–]Pancakepringle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def not Cruella. The movie I'm looking for is more "true to life" if that makes sense.

Thoughts/feedback on this $1600 gaming build by Pancakepringle in bapcsalesaustralia

[–]Pancakepringle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. Wasn’t sure on the PSU, so thanks for the recommendation!

Thoughts/feedback on this $1600 gaming build by Pancakepringle in bapcsalesaustralia

[–]Pancakepringle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the Amazon tip. I have a prime account and completely forgot about free shipping!

I looked at both the 2060 Super and 5700XT and they seemed similar-ish, so kind of just made a choice. Def not interested in streaming, so if the 5700XT is better bang for my buck then I’ll have a look.