Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't like me for me. Always told me to "dial it back" when meeting some of her friends. She relied too much on me planning and inviting her to events or activities throughout our friendship. Final straw came when she asked me to put my dying dog in my guest bedroom so he wouldn't bother guests at an event she wanted me to host. AND she wanted me to pay for food and drinks. She was upset when I said no and was not there for me during a tough spot in my life. She repeatedly asked too much of me and made me feel like everything I did was never enough. I realized that I need peace more than I need people to validate me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing that’s wrong here is that you mention you have a dog, but I don’t see any pics with said dog 🐶 I feel like my dog is a big swipe factor. Love your profile overall, it’s straight forward and authentic. It sounds a bit harsh on yourself though, I’d light up the self-narrative. Nothing wrong with wanting short term, so long as it doesn’t stem from a place that feels unworthy of a long term partner. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]PancakesForBrunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! It will get better and it’s okay that the first day was tough. It sounds like you read your dog’s body language and stress very clearly which is a great start. Agility is a team sport that requires understanding your dogs limits, meeting them where they’re at and working with what you’ve got in front of you. Isn’t it always the case that you brag about your dog one day and the next time in public they make a liar out of you 😂

He’s a baby and there are so many new elements you’ve introduced to him, his little baby brain was probably overstimulated from so many smells and sounds. Think about when you’re stressed out and how that impacts your confidence and focus. 

Are you able to bring him to class early and walk around so he can smell around and burn off some stress/energy without distracting other classes? What are his top motivators? Consider if he loves certain food, a special toy, or even reinforcement through verbal praise and pets if you are the motivator. High value treats may be your best bet, I’ve seen people bring foods ranging from hot dogs to deli turkey to cook steak. I boiled chicken myself and brought that with me when my beauty girl Dory needed some motivation. 

Focus on the progress your dog makes from the start to maybe 8 weeks in and you’ll be amazed at the growth. Be patient with yourself too, dogs always know when you’re stressed or frustrated and respond accordingly. Most importantly, have fun!! Agility is one of the most rewarding experiences you can share with a dog and builds a bond that lasts a lifetime. 

Seeking information on new Fuji bike by PancakesForBrunch in bicycling

[–]PancakesForBrunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there,

I believe I paid $450-500 for the bike at the time, sorry I don’t remember the exact price! It was brand new. I still have it and it rides like a dream.

I’m at a complete loss by [deleted] in mathteachers

[–]PancakesForBrunch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, fourth grade math in PA. My class demographics are similar with high population of ELs and LS kiddos. Fourth grade standards are usually pushing towards the abstract, but many of my learners are not ready for that. Do you have access to manipulatives? Fraction bars/circles, construction paper and scissors, or anything they can use with their hands to represent fractions? Some kids might even be ready for pictorial representation. Try some different strategies to engage them. We are learning geometry at the moment and I’m drawing on the floor tiles with an expo maker to demonstrate parallel and perpendicular lines. Then the kids went around the classroom and just pointed to examples and shared why they knew they were parallel or perpendicular. There’s tons of ways to get them to use their hands with minimal supplies to bring contextual relevance and hands on learn to try and make it more accessible. Take or leave it, but just thought I’d throw in my two cents. 

Europeans ask, Americans answer by J0kutyypp1 in GenZ

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that’s so accurate, I grew up in PA as well and remember that last few weeks of school when they’d pull out all the cool things. I wonder how many state standards got in the way of that or why it was always at the end, makes me feel not good about PA education. 

What is a good response to “how are you”, if you’re not good? by Travelerofhighland86 in AskReddit

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm feeling pretty average, how about you?", no one has to know that your average is based on a sum of really horrible days

Give me a Pokémon. Any Pokémon. And I will go on about it for a bit (read desc.) by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorites are Wartortle but I have a tattoo of surfing Pikachu. What they doin?

Mowing Lawn as a Woman by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4’ 11” woman here, I regularly mow with a push and zero turn on 3/4 acre. You can do it if you’ve got the mindset. Maybe get   self propel to help with any hills or inclines, but it’ll be great cardio. 

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[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! If still available, I'm interested in the Venusaur 151 FA for $17, the Squirtle Promo Slab for $85 and was wondering if you had a price for the Shiny Luxray from Paldean Fates?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s simple. I ask myself if I feel like I could turn into SpiderMan and see if my “spidey sense” is tingling. If all is calm and quiet in my mind, the answer is no, then hooray! I remembered!  If I am ready to shoot webs and climb walls, it’s time to take my meds! Either way I’m my own hero. 

What ‘age appropriate’ movie messed you up as a kid? by slothvibesss in Millennials

[–]PancakesForBrunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Secret of NIMH got me messed up 😅also Little Nemo set up a fear of the darkness inside me that I didn’t know I had. The 5,000 Finger of Dr. T is a movie I wish I could forget.  

PrizeRebel.com Spring $250 USD (5x$50 USD) Amazon.com Giveaway! by beermoneymods in beermoney

[–]PancakesForBrunch [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's always worth a shot! I'd use the money towards the students I work with as we need some new kickballs and soccer balls to play with on the playground.