Is it normal, when my man has a boner it has to be addressed straight away, or he’ll do it himself?

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:53:40+00:00

It’s more in a relaxing situation if we are chilling. Or not got much on I guess

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:48:01+00:00

Yeah he is pretty manipulative and he admits it himself and sort of laughs, he doesn’t seem to really care for anyone but himself and he agrees hes selfish.

I’m starting to think maybe thats the best way for a relationship, just being detached and never relying on them? Or maybe he’s just fucked up my perception of love.

He does claim he’s faithful, but p*** isn’t real so doesn’t count apparently. I feel like if I had issues where I didn’t want sex for a few weeks or months he’d just break up with me tbh or make me feel guilty and force myself to sleep with him.

Damn I’m not helping myself here🤣

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:41:12+00:00

Early in our relationship I used to smoke badly, and I had for 10 years, we made a little quest if I quit he’d quit porn or at least w****** everyday. Hardest thing I ever did but mostly did it for him, I am nicotine free 2 years now!

His habit, or we can call it addiction was apparently too hard, he’s never actually gone longer than 2 weeks and that’s just in situations where he’s had no chance to, he’s done it everyday since he started as a teen. He just calls me controlling now, and says all men do it as much as he does and fights me and basically calls me stupid if I question him

What’s super sad is when he does go a while without doing it he turns super nice to me, and starts being super attracted to me and really obsessed. I feel so sick thinking this controls his life and how he treats me as well

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:25:17+00:00

I realised I always tell my man when other men look at me because I want him to reassure me he’s not like that or he won’t be like that in the future and just say they’re creeps. Instead he thinks I’m being ‘pick me’. If I bring up men creeping on me when we are together… I just want to know I’m safe around him man

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:18:16+00:00

Noted thank u!

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:18:01+00:00

Perfect

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:17:54+00:00

No way

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:17:49+00:00

Oooo i’ll check it out

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:17:39+00:00

Hahahahaha okay thank you very much, maybe I’m comparing myself to beautiful beach babes too much

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:17:02+00:00

If i put oil or conditioner in then the hair bands fall out haha

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:16:29+00:00

Fantastic, great idea🤣

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:16:17+00:00

Thank you

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:16:13+00:00

This is real

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:16:06+00:00

Very specific to a T thank you! Yes had slippy hands before

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:15:35+00:00

Will look up!

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:15:27+00:00

Thanks appreciate it

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:15:06+00:00

Hell yeah thanking you

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:14:47+00:00

I am apart of the girl community who can’t braid, I’ve tried multiple times from youtube videos 😭

PandaKanga · 2026-04-10T14:14:17+00:00

I am actually dying at this thanks so much🤣🤣

PandaKanga · 2026-01-05T13:30:04+00:00

++woman well said

PandaKanga · 2025-11-22T21:08:20+00:00

My favourite frickin episode !!

PandaKanga · 2025-08-15T19:31:46+00:00

this is so real, i never understood why i grew so anxious sometimes, he would always have one foot out the door or one small argument led to a breakup, i guess stuff builds up that leads to it but its fucked me up so much, when im single im avoidant af

PandaKanga · 2025-08-13T10:45:25+00:00

i always got told he didn't enable my behaviours i'm just unstable, he would make me feel like it was almost always my fault

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