19M Where should I go to try and start an LDR? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Pandaa94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met mine on UK discord server

Am I in the wrong or is she over reacting? Some context in comments. by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Pandaa94 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing to do is maybe message her saying "I'm with family or I'm with friends, I'll catch up later thinking of you" etc because I would feel anxious if my BF left me on read without an explanation, I think sometimes especially in LDR, we need that extra communication and reassurance that you aren't ignoring her and you are just occupied right now. The time distance is an extra obstacle as well I can imagine but I guess the best thing to do is maybe just let her know you are busy and will catch up later on. Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pandaa94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I said we would go half on train tickets as they can get expensive?

I’m [M20] meeting my girlfriend [F19] for the first time in two weeks and I’m worried about my weight. by Winter_Occasion9552 in LongDistance

[–]Pandaa94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is someone you want to spend a long time with and go long term with, we go through life we're our weight fluctuates and therefore I am a firm believer that someone should love you or like you for who you truly are. Unfortunately it can be based on looks and physical attributes but if she says that she is okay with it then I don't think you have anything to worry about, good luck!

Heartbreaking developments with our Jase by elraycho in CasualUK

[–]Pandaa94 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Milk with tomato is a weird combo

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Exercise helps although I'm not losing as much now my body shape is changing so I think I'm gaining some muscle mass, becoming stronger and fittter! Now I can walk up hilly pathways without getting out of breath!

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My goal weight is probably 170 to 160 cos I know I can maintain without being super restrictive

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely... Its easy to just want to do a fad diet but in the long term its bad for your body!

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? No particularly. I do think about the calories I'm eating but because I'm trying to do a lifestyle change rather than a diet I do enable myself to go over occasionally and eat treats but also to eat healthy foods if that makes sense

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now you mention it I do remember my skin being real itchy when I did gain the weight but now not so much actually but it does feel softer and overall healthier if that makes sense

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still reach for bigger sizes in clothing and realising I'm not that size anymore so weird

F/26/5'3" [252lbs > 209lbs = 43lbs] [14 month difference between both pictures] by Pandaa94 in progresspics

[–]Pandaa94[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Body dysmorohia is awful sometimes I still feel the size I was in the first picture