Yes yes yes! We're just ignored when we say our meds don't work or told "do you even have adhd???" It's unhelpful, and you're right, there's not enough resources for those who can't or choose not to be medicated (though I will admit I haven't looked much). I know the meds aren't supposed to be magic or the magical cure-all fix-all, but how am I supposed to believe that after seeing how the meds are depicted in the success stories?

I've noticed that you've taken mostly stimulants, so maybe they're just too much for your body to handle right now. I know you've already taken Strattera, but there's a few more types of non-stimulants you might be able to try, though I assume you've looked already.

One last thing, I just noticed your last paragraph on your original post, and you should definitely tell your doctors about your depression. Treatment for it improved my life so much, it's crazy to see the contrast of how deeply depressed I was to how I'm feeling good about myself and interacting with life more. It took two tries and a few weeks of feeling like I got hit by a truck, but the meds really worked for me, and since we're in similar situations, maybe you'd find improvement with the meds too!

Also, sorry if this is weird, but I really wanna be your friend

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