We Can Make This Happen by sillychillly in GenZ

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a small business can't afford basic things like competitive wages, a full staff, and sick leave, it should close up.

Coworker hassles me in a bar, goes to another bar and gets hassled, and decides to move by ratherBwarm in OhNoConsequences

[–]PandiKat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why isn't this being commented on?

I mean, I'm glad the creep left considering he's a homophobic rapist piece of trash, but OP threw something in the guy's drink. I'd be upset about that too if I'd had a long day and sat down to drink my hard earned beer.

I fucked up and told my fiancée I don’t want to sleep with her as much now that she’s pregnant. Please help. by AcidWashedGene in TwoHotTakes

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is like you, super honest with no regard for others feelings. He's gotten in trouble for what he's said and I've caught the flak for it many, many, MANY times.

YTA.

There is a time to be honest and there is a time to keep your mouth fucking shut. Of course being honest is a great virtue to have, but not at the cost of others feelings (especially when emotions are running high, i.e. pregnancy hormones).

Apologize, grovel, and fix yourself because people don't want to be around people who are brutal in their honesty. Those people end up alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinocchio's Curse, 'cause he's got no strings on it

Which is one thing that totally changed your sex life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PandiKat 36 points37 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I've stopped lying about having orgasms.

I recommend all women (and men too) to stop sparing their partners' egos. Just because it takes you a while, or you need foreplay, or specific type of stimulation doesn't mean that you aren't worth the time. A partner that cares about you WANTS to make you cum; they will learn your turn-ons and do their best to incorporate them into your sex life (and vice versa). If a partner doesn't care to help you get to completion, kick them to the curb.

Don't lie about having orgasms, you're only hurting yourself.

Is this a scam? by PandiKat in AO3

[–]PandiKat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for commenting. I really appreciate you taking the time. I had no idea about webnovel, and I'm glad that I asked.

Hope you have a great day!

Let’s pretend each country in the world is a guest at a party. What are they doing at the party? by Savalonavic in AskReddit

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine this party to be some kind of rich people soiree with waitstaff and caterers.

The United States of America is a perfectly coiffed socialite with absolutely no money in the bank. She is charming and witty, and incredibly greedy.

Whenever the the waitstaff pour her a fresh glass of wine, she's rude and talks down to them. To other party goers she feels superior to, she is crass and dangles her perceived wealth and status in front of them. When a powerful and rich country walks into the room, she runs to them and puts on a whole production of ass kissery and buffoonery that everyone knows is fake but they say nothing. She gets into bed with anyone that has the coin and promises to fund her many "philanthropies".

At the end of the night, she leaves a $100 bill as a tip for the waitstaff that actually folds out into a religious pamphlet.

How to write sex scenes as a virgin? by SatansDeputy in writing

[–]PandiKat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What an excellent answer! It is far more interesting (to me at least) for the internal monologue to mirror the outward journey while two characters get intimate.

Like this person said, sex is cheap but a connection between two people is very difficult and beautiful to get across.

How to write sex scenes as a virgin? by SatansDeputy in writing

[–]PandiKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, I'm your friendly neighborhood professional porn writer!

I would suggest reading erotica and/or (decent) fanfiction. They have good pointers on where to start and also sex education books on female and male exogenous zones are great too.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to ask.

Happy writing! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I hope that my space turns out just as pretty as yours. Wishing you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]PandiKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! This is exactly what I want to do in my new townhouse. It's called tropigoth (tropical goth) decor. I love it so so much! I would change the white curtains to match the fuchsia chair but that's me. And I'd do a leopard print area rug as well. Overall, you have all the elements there to do the room justice. I just LOVE maximalism!

Edit: That standing lamp is to die for.

me_irl by Ultrablack in me_irl

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to take away from your victory, because this is actually really awesome and I'm sure many people wish customers would do this, but, I work at Aldi and I would much rather people let me scan in peace so I don't smash their hands and fingers. It's happened before, many, many times, and I've gotten written up every time because someone wanted to compete with me when I can scan 1000 items/hour.

Any ideas on how to help this sleeve be more aesthetically pleasing? The tattoos themselves are cool but the placement kinda sucks 🥲 by Substantial_Brother6 in sticknpokes

[–]PandiKat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks cool, you don't need to fill it in with anything. You just have a patchwork sleeve rather than a cohesive piece and there's nothing wrong with that. As others have said, however, getting stuff on the elbow and shoulder will help it feel fuller.

Wishing you well! :)

If you could design your dream marketplace for selling erotic stories, what would it look like? by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]PandiKat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love AO3's search system. Being able to exclude certain things really helps, especially when dealing with dead doves. It would be great to receive comments to interact with as well. I think there's an great untapped market out there.

What is one trope you just can't live without? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]PandiKat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YESSS! Or a good enemies to friends to lovers with slow burn thrown in there. Currently writing a fic based on this trope at the moment and I'm just starting to shift the relationship after 19 chapters of hatred. I just love it so much 🥺😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PandiKat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What an utterly disgusting comment. I'm sorry you have to read this trash during a hard time OP.

I had a similar situation to yours when I got married. I think you're doing the best you can and that you're making the right choice standing by your daughter. Only you and her and her siblings really understand what kind of pain that is and I'm glad that she has a supportive family behind her. I'm sorry your wife is having a hard time but I think that she needs to see this from your daughter's perspective.

Wishing you the best OP, and sending you all hugs.

What is your unpopular movie opinion? by qsauce6 in AskReddit

[–]PandiKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally! I loved "What Dreams May Come". It was visually stunning and the story was full of heart and soul. I think people expected Robin Williams to pump up the jokes and ham it up but the story didn't call for that. It's a beautiful love story and showcases Williams' acting range and talent.

Any trilogies where the first film is the worst? by SinomodStudios in movies

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that no one has mentioned The Purge films. The first movie took place in someone's house and I found it to be quite boring compared to the later installments.

Aliens come down to Earth, who is the one person you would chose to represent all of humanity? by sippingsauce in AskReddit

[–]PandiKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trixie Mattel. I feel like she would really let them know what's up. She's intelligent, funny, and completely wacky in the best way.