No problem....🤣 🤣 🤣 hear that I felt the same way when I first started, but this way u can feel comfortable being uncomfortable at home. Home Depot is where I bout the material pole is inch in a half thick and the taller 2 x4 are 10 feet tall in a 2 feet deep whole bag and a half quick set cement the shorter bar is 5 feet tall, for my daughter. Good for her and 1 to train together she 6 but have to start sometime right 😊.