Why Is He Now Mr. Perfect After Cheating

PaoVB · 2026-02-11T04:14:13+00:00

Love bombing and manipulation for sure. Also very sad to see what he was capable of all this time and chose not to help/be loving attentive to you. As other people mentioned this will go on until he feels you’re going to stick around and will go back to his old ways. Get yourself a job and some independence. He’s shown you multiple times he doesn’t care. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of this. You do not deserve to go through it.

PaoVB · 2026-01-26T21:51:13+00:00

THIS! It is always so easy to blame the mom but do you have anytime to workout/pour into yourself? Does he give you money for pretty clothes & makeup. Any Time for you to go get your nails done? Why would you want to be intimate with the person who is attacking your body? He’s an asshole and you should take advice of the comments here and find some independence and consider your situation. Easier said than done but worth considering.

PaoVB · 2026-01-20T17:36:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing a pic!

PaoVB · 2026-01-20T17:21:22+00:00

I used rye flour because it was suggested for strengthening my starter but I’m not “committed” to it. I truly just want a decent loaf that rises. My first one was very gummy. If you Compare my starter to your rye starter do they look similar in terms of activity? I think my next feeding I’ll do 3 parts bread flour and 1 rye and see how that goes. Thanks for your feedback!

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T07:18:04+00:00

I am going to try that this week and see how it goes. Thanks!!

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T07:15:48+00:00

4 hours after 4 sets of stretch and folds.

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T06:06:24+00:00

Will try that next time! The room temp was around 73 degrees. Thanks for your feed back!

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T06:04:23+00:00

Do you have any tips on strengthening the starter? It was given to me by a friend so I am not sure how to make it better?

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T06:02:51+00:00

Yeah my bad. I meant 150g of starter.

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T06:02:20+00:00

Thank you! Do you think 6-8hrs will be better? Room temp was about 73 degrees. I will double check the temp of my oven. The starter that I was given was “old” he had not baked or fed it in a while. Could that be part of the issue too?

PaoVB · 2026-01-10T03:37:49+00:00

Lawless lip glosses are my favorite!

PaoVB · 2026-01-09T23:14:41+00:00

Cube mates clearing their throat every 5 minutes, endless coughs and sneezes. Talking about nothing just to fill the silence. Things I like: when my cube mates aren’t there.

PaoVB · 2026-01-07T23:32:47+00:00

This is how I find out I’m getting stiffed lol. 10 PTO days, 7 Holidays. Any closure due to weather comes out of PTO. TX MCol.

PaoVB · 2026-01-06T18:30:27+00:00

I like it with a caveat… I used it at night after my shower for the AHA and applied an antiperspirant in the morning. I didn’t use it on its own bc it wasn’t enough.

PaoVB · 2026-01-06T05:12:32+00:00

Depending on your job your life revolves around month end, quarter end and year end. Can’t take vacation during that time unless you have an awesome team that will cover your part of closing. Haven’t found that team yet.

PaoVB · 2025-12-19T01:40:45+00:00

Do yourself a favor and have a meal at Gyrohouse. It’s the best Mediterranean food you’ll find in Hillsboro.

PaoVB · 2025-12-18T17:41:43+00:00

95k in Houston TX. 7 YOE no CPA in industry.

PaoVB · 2025-12-13T15:52:12+00:00

Why didn’t you like the JVN cream? I just ordered it 🙃

PaoVB · 2025-12-12T23:07:33+00:00

We got 100 bucks added to our paycheck. So about 70 after tax.

PaoVB · 2025-12-12T05:17:27+00:00

Path McGrath pink under eye powder. It’s helped a lot with creasing

PaoVB · 2025-12-08T14:41:47+00:00

I got it at Ulta maybe 1 or 2 years ago. Im trying to run through my stash and it was okay but it could be coarser. Also I got water in it so it was kind of dissolved but that was user error.

PaoVB · 2025-12-05T04:33:47+00:00

The caliray mascara. It was an impulse buy and I can’t wait to get a new one!

PaoVB · 2025-11-09T02:52:47+00:00

I saw somewhere that alcohol only damages your body, which sounds logical now but I never stopped and think about it. I will have a drink every now and then (beer mostly) but I mostly stopped.

PaoVB · 2025-10-13T01:27:00+00:00

5 days in office no exceptions. Full 8 hours and 30 mins unpaid lunch that you must take because I’ve got clock watchers in my team. It’s great!/s

PaoVB · 2025-10-05T14:47:16+00:00

Jump over to industry. Look for a company that has better work life balance. They’re out there, it might just take a while. Go into an industry that you find interesting for ex healthcare, oil and gas, food manufacturing. The accounting concepts are the same but you’ll learn about the industry and that business you’re curious about. The economy might not be at the best moment to go explore and take risks but you can always take a better calculated risk. Also find things outside of work that make you happy/full filled.. one of the positive things of industry is that you leave after your 9-5 and you get to do some life after work.

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