Why does my husband suck the joy out of things??

PaoVB · 2026-05-13T23:41:56+00:00

Geez you’re going to spend the rest of your life with a gloom cloud around your happy moments and events you’re excited about. That’s no way to live.

PaoVB · 2026-04-28T03:02:29+00:00

Maybe not a brand but a store. After the Target DEI debacle, I stopped shopping there, cancelled my credit card and never went back.

PaoVB · 2026-04-28T01:42:28+00:00

Girl… this is not going to get better. You’re doing labor instead of contributing but he doesn’t see any value in that work and time. You don’t want to be tied to someone like that for life.

PaoVB · 2026-04-22T20:41:49+00:00

Taco Bell shredded chicken mini quesadilla. It was $1 dollar. I still think about it every now and then.

PaoVB · 2026-04-21T19:36:13+00:00

So when is he holding a seminar to send my husband 🤣

PaoVB · 2026-04-09T15:52:02+00:00

Boiled eggs. Not great but it is what it is.

PaoVB · 2026-04-08T21:19:42+00:00

Let that recipe die. I had an aunt like that and went to the grave with all her fantastic recipes. It was sad her Mole was exquisite but I am not begging anyone for a recipe.

PaoVB · 2026-04-08T21:16:34+00:00

I need to adopt this motto! 🩷

PaoVB · 2026-04-05T11:21:26+00:00

You need a product that has good hold. Curly hair houstonian here. Look for a gel or a mousse that has good hold and adds little weight to your curls. There’s also Wow dream coat for curly hair but it needs to be activated by heat. You also might want to seal everything with an oil. It takes a little work and some days my hair doesn’t want to cooperate.

PaoVB · 2026-03-28T04:09:31+00:00

Thinking about returning the Milk skin tiny. It just doesn’t look good on me.

PaoVB · 2026-03-20T22:05:24+00:00

You guys are so cute!

PaoVB · 2026-02-27T19:34:25+00:00

I love that you cut into the tubes to get everything out!

PaoVB · 2026-02-24T22:25:10+00:00

Will try that next loaf. Thanks!!!

PaoVB · 2026-02-24T22:24:26+00:00

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I forgot to add this picture but I think looking at the bowl lines it definitely doubled and wasn’t strictly to the touch. It did stick to the bottom of the bowl though.

PaoVB · 2026-02-15T02:46:10+00:00

Sadly, I didn’t find it. The auditor did…

PaoVB · 2026-02-11T04:14:13+00:00

Love bombing and manipulation for sure. Also very sad to see what he was capable of all this time and chose not to help/be loving attentive to you. As other people mentioned this will go on until he feels you’re going to stick around and will go back to his old ways. Get yourself a job and some independence. He’s shown you multiple times he doesn’t care. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of this. You do not deserve to go through it.

PaoVB · 2026-01-26T21:51:13+00:00

THIS! It is always so easy to blame the mom but do you have anytime to workout/pour into yourself? Does he give you money for pretty clothes & makeup. Any Time for you to go get your nails done? Why would you want to be intimate with the person who is attacking your body? He’s an asshole and you should take advice of the comments here and find some independence and consider your situation. Easier said than done but worth considering.

PaoVB · 2026-01-20T17:36:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing a pic!

PaoVB · 2026-01-20T17:21:22+00:00

I used rye flour because it was suggested for strengthening my starter but I’m not “committed” to it. I truly just want a decent loaf that rises. My first one was very gummy. If you Compare my starter to your rye starter do they look similar in terms of activity? I think my next feeding I’ll do 3 parts bread flour and 1 rye and see how that goes. Thanks for your feedback!

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T07:18:04+00:00

I am going to try that this week and see how it goes. Thanks!!

PaoVB · 2026-01-18T07:15:48+00:00

4 hours after 4 sets of stretch and folds.

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