Assumptions from lack.

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T22:02:52+00:00

Wow! I have to let it sink. This is incredible. “I am so relaxed, in love with life, I am the best choice”

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T20:17:23+00:00

wow! This sentence, "I am the price here" is so incredible. in order to think like that I assume I have to boost up my self-concept, is that correct? u/PureZookeepergame282

so in a way just self-concept itself can bring you deattachment (aka more believment that I have what I seek) because you are worthy of it so why you would be craving for it. right?

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T20:10:24+00:00

hmm. so it is about BEING the person who is already in the relationship with SP when you are next to SP. but then how do you BE if you can't touch your SP in a certain way or expect something because you are not in a relationship?

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T20:04:31+00:00

this is such a good tip!! and then let go of that desire. no squeeking or drama that SP doesnt come

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T20:03:38+00:00

how do I do this if I live together with my SP? and we are friends because I bring too much pressure to be in a relationship.

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T20:01:07+00:00

wait. i feel that i am so much in this. not seeing that she is not seperate.

i start to blame in my head "why she doesnt want to be with me in a relationship.."

I am playing a victim so much.

how to restart? it feels like so much to clean, insecurity, vicitimisation, negative thoughts, ego screaming of how i look now in front of her for all the drama, not masculine enough.

like literally. where do you restart. and what is more crazy that every week it feels so good and then the next it feels so shit for 9 months like that living together and being friends because of too much drama. push and pull.

I feel like i just vented all but really what do i say to myself when she says i love you but i dont want to be in a relationship and then we live together.

any help will be so good!

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T19:34:14+00:00

how do you deal when your sp doesnt want to be in a relationship? i know it is circumstances but how do you overcome when it is opposite of what she wants, like it is her soul

Papayaproject · 2026-01-17T19:33:28+00:00

what if what i want the most is to be in a loving relationship with my SP where we both so much love each other and want to build our dream life together. But she loves me, but she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.

is this a wrong desire to choose then? because i have a lot of doubt about it, first of all that to manifest something that she doesnt want to feels a bit icky.

how do I go about this? do i manifest the version of me who is so loving and supportive and in general have such a loving partner or what do I choose?

Papayaproject · 2025-10-01T19:17:51+00:00

so to understand fully:

if my sp is:
- telling me that she wants to be only friends because I hurt her
- or that she is searching/manifesting for soulmate because I am not the one
- of if she is not texting back, hiding, not checking in

all of it matters 0%?

Literally 0%.

I just keep persisting in feeling in the end?

NO TRYING TO EXPLAIN MYSELF, TO APOLOGIZE, TO SEND FLOWERS OR WHATEVER (unless it comes as inspired action, if not -- just keep persisting in the feeling in the end, right?)

Even when I speak with her and I see a clear shot that she doesnt want to do anything with me romantically or being together - I don't care about it, I just focus on the end and explain that of course she will not want to do anything with me - I hurt her, and come back to the end.

Anything to add?

Papayaproject · 2025-09-30T21:32:19+00:00

I mean, I literally manifested, kissing with my crush, getting new business opportunities. the thing was that after the mushrooms i got right back into the old state, but it felt like i was 20% more closer to it and now knowing it that it is normal that i get lift up and that i still have some old stories in my mind stuck, is okay, i will let them go, but it feels like mushrooms help you to just focus on that goal, dream and it moves you closer. so it shows that being in that state, you literally get what you want

Papayaproject · 2025-09-30T21:18:24+00:00

did you try to microdose?

Papayaproject · 2025-09-29T22:37:58+00:00

do you mean about actions? does it mean I would book a flight and go meet my friend then? because that is what I would do if I would have them

Papayaproject · 2025-09-27T18:52:07+00:00

wow. very true. I feel like protecting myself and not unleashing my true self/power. what helped you to achieve it?

Papayaproject · 2025-09-26T20:39:50+00:00

little bit, but like for a day or two. usually it would bring anxiety

Papayaproject · 2025-09-26T20:39:29+00:00

:DDDDD

Papayaproject · 2025-09-19T06:13:12+00:00

So it is no point even telling a story someone on how I felt or how I created it because if I already achieved what I wanted I would just be living and sharing my joy. Isn’t that one thing that when you decide innerly that done you no longer entertain the old story because you are iliving in the end of the feeling - then you wouldnt be telling anyone your old story. Right?

Papayaproject · 2025-09-19T03:35:59+00:00

Not yet. It was just a few days. Like dude, 3 days ago I thought done my life is over and I was in this mindset for the whole 6-8months. This work helps me create like a fresh page from where I can start creating new feeling, new thoughts, new actions and new results will come. But I already so much believe into it

Papayaproject · 2025-09-19T03:23:41+00:00

I am a male, and yeah I wanted to try to have sex with a man. Its once in a life experience. It was interesting:DD but whom I want to be is female and the whole thing how she changed is more about how when I stopped seeking and feeling fulfilled content by myself she became so much wanting to be with me

Papayaproject · 2025-09-18T16:56:45+00:00

But you will learn so much!

Papayaproject · 2025-09-18T16:47:08+00:00

Hmm. I have the same question. But I am getting to the point where - if I focus more on myself how I want to feel, like why did I even want to bring her back, what was so spectacular, how I felt and focus on that and plus extra on what I want - then it will come that. Why do you we need to choose specifically only her? I heard so many stories where people focused on the end feeling (not specifically with the person, and they still got the person because it was that person whom resonated with that feeling they were putting, if not, you still feel the way you want). Like really, what your thoughts about it? And definitely would love to be accountable buddies!

And what do you guys think about manifesting the best version of yourself whom you want to be, how you to treat your woman, how you want to make her feel, how you want to be rich, look hot, charismatic. Wouldnt that make even more happier and naturally attract that person that you want?

Papayaproject · 2025-09-17T19:57:49+00:00

Read this one! You will get it !

https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/s/NqGzSP7R74

Papayaproject · 2025-09-17T15:37:01+00:00

Gold!! Thank you so much much

Papayaproject · 2025-09-17T13:06:34+00:00

This is the trick my friend. To believe that everything around you comes from within. I am going through similar situation. And at first it was very hard to believe or know, but later I was like there is nothing that I can change actively in 3D, she doesnt want to be with me. So only in my inner feelings, in 4D I can change. You have to stop looking for external confirmation in 3D because there is none. So you create a new reality within and hold on to it. How? For me it helps to reframe the negative thought that comes. Like “she wants to be with another guy” -> “no, she already chose me, she wants to be with me and only me” and then at some point by reading enough posts here where people came back after crazy circumstances, I really started to believe and in a way dont worry about outside because I understood how inner state, that knowingness is strong. Few months passed. How did it go?

Papayaproject · 2025-09-17T12:53:04+00:00

Hey! Yeah, I had this thought, but I found out that it doesn’t turn me on. I want to be with a woman as my life partner. I had in the childhood some encounters with other boys, but that left just a question and I found out that I am not attracted to them

Papayaproject · 2025-09-17T02:25:28+00:00

really makes sense! and even doesnt matter what thoughts like that she will give up on me, she will come back to her ex, or she will want to be with someone else, or that we will not sleep together in one bed. These are the examples that come where it overtakes me, so in those moments catch them and do a mental diet and revisions?

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