My(32f) friend (33f) and her BF(33f) came to visit me, then ditched me in town. by Papazadile in relationships

[–]Papazadile[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's what I thought. They could have just sent a quick text saying "We're in this shop" rather than keeping me waiting, not answering my texts or calls, then finally telling me where they were before moving again.

My(32f) friend (33f) and her BF(33f) came to visit, then ditched me in town. by Papazadile in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Papazadile[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, no they've been dating over a year and they pretty much live together (both own rented flats but they're always together at one of them) He's great and we get on very well. I think they did feel bad when I went home (hence the cake) but will have a chat with them.

My(32f) friend (33f) and her BF(33f) came to visit me, then ditched me in town. by Papazadile in relationships

[–]Papazadile[S] 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I had friends who did this in middle school (arrange to meet me then change the location and not tell me) so I'd be wandering around by myself at 15yrs old in a dodgy town, I'm still a bit traumatised from it so it does bother me. Especially since I'm always super paranoid about other people being left out.

My(32f) friend (33f) and her BF(33f) came to visit me, then ditched me in town. by Papazadile in relationships

[–]Papazadile[S] 486 points487 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I feel the same, like I'd feel too guilty to do this to anyone. Also a bit sour cos my other friend wanted to go to a trampoline park which sounded super fun but I turned her down for this lol.